Healthy Relationships Support Group

No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.

8,531 Members
13,273 Posts
1 Online
Relationships & Sexuality
/ Healthy Relationships Support Group

New here

deleted_user
deleted_user
Well I'm new here to this community.

My heathy relationship right now is with myself.I figure if I ever plan on a healthy relationship with someone else,I need to embrace the one I have now.

It's not that I'm unhappy with being alone.In fact I'm finally to a point where I am happy and comfortable with being on my own.

Just wanted to start off with where I am now.Hope to grow and learn with you all.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Welcome Jane. You are going to love this group. It helps me everyday.
The people here have some amazng ideas and experiences.
Bye JJ
Dixe4me
Dixe4me
Oh I love your pic!! I remember watching that when I was a kid. loooooove it. Welcome!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
hi and welcome home x
deleted_user
deleted_user
Wow - - you are so right. I am ipressed that you realize you have to be happy with yourself first; it is hard to admit that. I had a hard with being comfortable with myself and on my own, and I was on my own for quite a few years before I got married. I applaud you for that!

Welcome to DS.
deleted_user
deleted_user
welcome! :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Welcome
glad to meet ya..
i am poet
geomar
geomar
I agree, invest in the quality of you first. Get to know yourself, know what you bring to the relationship.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well, great minds think alike. I have been signed on to this community for weeks. Yet, I think I posted 1 time.

Tonight I have just been sitting in my home by myself. The frantic distractions of trying to win friends, look for fantasy threads, finding someone to flirt with are all drifting away.

I sat WITH myself, for the very first time since my stbx left almost 3 months ago. I have come to the same conclusion, Jane.

I enjoyed my own company, my own thoughts, my own solitude. I'm not there yet but I look forward to sharing me...comfortable with me.....with someone who is comfortable with being him.

I am new here too. I'm just beginning a healthy relationship with myself. It feels right. It feels relaxed. FINALLY.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey 31.I didn't know you were here too.

JaneR aka Legz
deleted_user
deleted_user
Absolutely. A healthy relationship with yourself is a great start!!!!!
Posts You May Be Interested In
  • irishwriter

    come unwind in the bp lounge

    Posted by: irishwriter
    Last Reply: kisses2016
    7992
    theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
  • Rizen

    Walk a Day

    Posted by: Rizen
    Last Reply: Secouya
    2569
    I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...