I remember a time when my children were babies..I never lost control..unti...the dreaded teens, the game got harder. We wonder what we did wrong, did we drop them on their heads?? are they temporarily insane, hey I know, they are possessed by aliens!!!! we are hell bent of making them happy because that is what we do. But in the process we loose ourselves. I have waited a bunch of years to see what I wanted to be when I "grew up" and I will be damned if I am gonna be a martyr to my grown children. You see the operative word is GROWN. We have done all we can to ensure them the difference between right and wrong, now what they do with that information is up to them. It is our time to live, I love raising my grans..it gives me the opportunity to love my child through them, and it also keeps me young!!! But we all need to take back our power when it comes to our kids!!! I refuse to be a slave to their selfish whims. My children know that I will not tolerate any crap..I worked to hard to feed and clothe them, I had no friends and I was alone scrubbing toilets to buy shoes!!!! hell no!!! So a call to arms!!! TAKE BACK YOUR POWER NOW!!!!
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