My g-sons family (mothers side), including the mother, has only spent 32 hrs. with him since Aug. The maternal G-mother asked for me to set aside Saturdays for her and I said I would. This was on Dec 1. Since that request, she has only gotten my G-son 3 times. The last time she picked him up was Jan 5. She doesnt bother to call to say she wont be picking him up only calls when she wants to play G-ma. I have been playing with the idea of telling the entire family to either be an active part of my G-sons life or stay out. They come and go as they please and I am afraid it will cause issues for him. There was no visitation ordered by the courts. Am I wrong in my thinking?? Or should I just be thankful for what little time they do spend with him. I just want what is best for him and dont want anything/anyone to complicate his life anymore than it has to be.
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