I resent my daughter for many things that she has done. She has just walked away from her 2 1/2 yr old daughter (my GD) for a crack head of a boyfriend and is now bringing another baby (his) into this world. I resent her for taking away my freedom and putting me in this situation, as well as the family I still have at home. I have had to take a month and a half off work for stress leave just to deal with all this resentment I now have built up inside of me. I have taken on the sole finacial responsibility of my GD and would file for custody but the lawyer I contacted told me it could cost up to $10,000.00 if the mother contests. In early Jan. I revoked her visitation with her daughter because of the issues I have to deal with when she brings her back after a couple of hours, and never heard anythign from her for over a month until last Monday night when she sowed up at my door and demanded I give her daughter back to her, I told her no way, she tells me I will bring the police then and they will give her back to her and I told her to go right ahead I would like to talk to the police about what she has done to the poor child, I asked her why I had not heard anything up to that point from her and she tells me that after my e-mail revoking the visitation rights she had decided to "CUT HER LOSES" but had now changed her mind and wants her back, again I told her not a chance in h#$* was she taking her, then there were a few more words and my husband finally intervened and told her to get off our property and she walked away and again still have not heard anything from her again. The part I don't get is that they figure they can just rule our lives and walk in whenever they feel they want to be a parent again and demand the child back, it is a frustrating situation to be in, so again we sit and wait for her to do something so we can contact CPS and they can get invovled so that they will pay for the custody of my GD to be granted to us and only then will we might get a piece of mind out of this. Thanks for letting me vent.
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