I just had to share. The last 2 years have been so crazy with the gks with dad dying and no mom for the last 8 months, that yesterday I decided to do something that we all NEVER do because we are all trying to do right by the kids that our kids don't care about. I went and had a facial and a massage. I was at the spa for 2 hours. Man, what a feeling! My husband told me to take a day for myself and go indulge a little, so I did! When I picked the kids up from daycare, we all had such a GOOD evening! My little gd even ate her green beans all gone - LOL. I guess my whole point of this post is - we ALL need to take a little time for ourselves, even just 2 hours to relax and do something we enjoy. That seemed to help take the pressure off just a bit. Feeling good about ourselves helps us feel good about all the GOOD we are ALL doing!
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