Last 2 week-ends daughter coming over and taking out granddaughter for the 2 days. So,my days off without working when granddaughter and I could have some fun--mom is playing mom.My husband and I are feeling like free babysitters.It hurts--we have had her 1 1/2 years with legal guardianship and mom strolls in and plays mom whenever she wants. Mom is trying to bum off money from all family members. She is $300 behind in her checking, and is off work for the next 2 weeks, Yet she has the gas money to drive out here 20 minutes. Today is the first days she has actually taken her to her house--with new husband and their 4 month old kid. I am worried cause she never WATCHES her. Only the last month as she been allowed to take her from our house. Our lawyer says not to block it--but I worry. My daughter has built up no reliability with us. Hopefully this is just one of her manic phases and she may come back down and realize it's a lot of work.
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