Jade, please talk to someone and get out of there. These people are nuts!!! I can not believe that someone messed with your brakes knowing Ri travels in your vehicle. I do not believe it was a coincidence. PLEASE, take Ri and leave before something happens.

Jade, You need to report every time something happens. I feel for you! I don't get here as often since I have been under the weather and this really scares me for you. What is their problem? Have to talked to the local law officals to at least let them know what has happened, what you have reported and ask them to keep check by driving by often, especially at night or when your not at home. Our law is really good about it but I went to school with a lot of them and several has dealt with my BP daughter and know the situation.
Keep me up on this please! I'm worreid for all of you!

OMG Jade...we hear of stories like this AFTER someone has been seriously injured or even killed....you MUST report everything to the police...keep a journal on every little or major thing that has happened...this is a very serious matter and the police will help...they see this scenario all the time and it's totally preventable...PLEASE call them for help. It's very important to write things down when they happen. You do NOT have to live like that...it's just wrong. You need to talk to anyone who you know might be able to help...they should not be able to get away with this...it's torture for you nobody deserves to be messed with like this....PLEASE I can't stress enough....call the police right away. I went through something similar after my first marriage....my ex husband was very physically abusive and when I took away his control he tried to get it back by stalking me...I called the police...got a restraining order...when he finally realized he lost control he finally gave up....but that's how women get killed...they don't get help..I was afraid for my children as well...so I got help...any domestic issue the police take very seriously because they know the outcome....it's always preventable and they know that. Please call them and get help...keep me posted on how things are going! God be with you during this very difficult time.

I don't think the police would do anything. For one we have no proof who did these things. Nothing like this ever happen until we got Ri, so of course we would think it was them. The mail stuff we think it was ri's mom because her M>O> is stealing mail anything from credit cards to credit card checks to boxes of bank checks. I had a credit card stolen and a item from a clothing store stolen.
My brakes were messed with when mom didn't have visiation rights but we would meet her at a resturant to visit. I came out to leave and my hood was slightly up and you have to pull the lever inside the SUV, my door was unlocked which I thought I had locked it. Anyway Ri and I had just went shopping and several bags sitting inside plus some cash and it was all there still. I was nerves driving home and the next morning we had someone check under the hood to see if anything had been done. And the main line to the brakes had been undone and redone but screwed on crocked and not all the way, so it had a slow leek.
WE have had many people come inside our place of business taking notes as the watched us, each time it has been really yucky people.
If I reported anything I think I would call the FBI not local police.
Also we found out this last year when we hired a PI many things, but one of them that we found out she called FBI and said she was afraid my husband was going to have a hit put on her.....we have done nothing to mae her think that.But he FBI did a full investation privately on him. We know she is a nark and we have suspected on the fedral level becasue of the stealing mail etc and nothing was ever done even with all the police reports and her name on all of them.But this made us even think further that she is a nark that nothing has happen and to have FBI check him out???
One thing actaully happen, we were at the vist at the resurant and her mom's car's back window was gone and I ask what happen and she said oh my brother was cleaning a mosel loader in the yard and it went off. Many things here did not add up for one I have never seen them back there car up in the drive where the back window would have been shot out. PLus we found out that is impossible, when you are cleaning a mosel loader it is taken apart and it won't shoot at that point. I tihnk becasue all of her drug activity and narking someone may have shot it out but it wasn't a musle loader. Anyway I kind of wonder if she blamed us or simply thought she could blame us for a brownie point.
But see all they have done nothing we say will change it. We have no proof. Now the ad litem in the case and our lawyers know all about all of it. But of course nothing was ever brought out in court.
I feel like our hands are tied in many area's with Ri and I think that is why I get so upset. We are quilty of saving a child, she is quilty of many tihngs but yet we are drug throught he mud while she sits on the stand and acts all inacent and never even admits to hurting Ri or anything else for that matter.

Jade, do you have a video camera that you could install around your property? If not, maybe one of your friends would be happy to lend you one. I feel so badly for your family. These people need to sent off to a nut house for the rest of their lives. Thank God they don't have Ri.

I am sorry for this nightmare of a situation you deal with. I don't think any of us really know what to say that would help you except to seek protection. We can keep you in our prayers and hope that lends some support and just be here for you through these trying times. You are thought of often and may God keep you all safe.

First of all, document, document, document. Write down EVERYTHING and then keep reporting it ALL to the police. If you don't have any luck, try the court house or news stations. Someone will listen, I know.

Second,I know you don't want to do this (no one ever does), but you can go into a shelter and they will "hide" you so you will all be safe. They can arrange for you to even go to work, if need be.

Jade, take all this seriously. None of want to scare you, but we are all really, really concerned for your safety. You must protect Ri at all costs. Get out NOW!!

Our prayers are with you and we all care so very much. Take care, Jade, and God bless you.

I fear at times. I am pretty sure they are toying with us. Tons of people know if anything happens to us to point the finger at those crazy people.
I am uncomfierable in my own home with knowing they could be out there watching everything I do in the evenings.
We are letting go of our home because of it. I can't deal with it any more. My husband and I built this cabin with our own two hands and it means a lot to us, but he is gone so much in the evenings that I am so fearful I don't want to be out here on this mountain by myself with Rylynn any more.
WE have been dealing with this around 3 years now. I think I said some place two years but it has been 3 years. Stalkng is against the law, but I think you have to catch them at it.

Jade, I'm so sorry, I had no idea. Please,document everything, even if it seems trivial. Also i know of a place that sells video cameras pretty cheap. They have one that you can install and watch on your t.v. or computer monitor from inside your house. If you choose to use them don't let your neighbors know anything. Please report any incident to the police. You can always get copies of the police reports for court if you need them.

Because of you guys I have decided to write each and everything down and go speak to the police. I thought maybe it was just me feeling like it was a big deal, but from your all reactions I see that it is not.At least it'll be on record all of it. They may not do anything, but there will be a record of it all.
In my 48 years of life and all these years of marrage we never have had any one of these items happen to us it is just to weird that since this case we have it all the time.
Thanks guys for being my bra!