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I know alot of us are going through a lot of the same things so thought maybe one of you could help me here.
I have slowly told you my story over several weeks, months. One of the reasons is the trust issues I now have because of everything in the last few years and another is because it is a overwhelming crazy story.
For some time now I have been being followed off and on for a year or so. They use to sit across from our place of business and watch us. When we would go any places many times we would get home and our key would not fit into the lock right and we noticed metal shavings in the key hole. This was all key holes, including dead bolts.
Our SUV has been broke into several times and brake line messed with once. Our country home broke into but the alarm freaked them out and they left. My mail stolen at the country home or mail box beat down at the other home twice. ETC ETC ETC>>>>>>
We now live just at the country home. Now the mother of Ri's step dad has became friends with a neighbor that is also a yuck. So now I am afraid out here.
I have been afraid for our lives for some time, but now I do not even feel safe in my own home.
I really don't think they would ever do anything to us with Ri here, but on the weekends she is gone I am scared the whole time.
Oh and by the way Ri was with me when the brakes were messed with. It was the main brake line.
Some of these things have been reported but some have not.
I am so tired of looking over my shoulder. I don't think anyone understands what freaks these people are.
The last straw for me is becoming friends with the neighbor.
Anyone.......................
I have slowly told you my story over several weeks, months. One of the reasons is the trust issues I now have because of everything in the last few years and another is because it is a overwhelming crazy story.
For some time now I have been being followed off and on for a year or so. They use to sit across from our place of business and watch us. When we would go any places many times we would get home and our key would not fit into the lock right and we noticed metal shavings in the key hole. This was all key holes, including dead bolts.
Our SUV has been broke into several times and brake line messed with once. Our country home broke into but the alarm freaked them out and they left. My mail stolen at the country home or mail box beat down at the other home twice. ETC ETC ETC>>>>>>
We now live just at the country home. Now the mother of Ri's step dad has became friends with a neighbor that is also a yuck. So now I am afraid out here.
I have been afraid for our lives for some time, but now I do not even feel safe in my own home.
I really don't think they would ever do anything to us with Ri here, but on the weekends she is gone I am scared the whole time.
Oh and by the way Ri was with me when the brakes were messed with. It was the main brake line.
Some of these things have been reported but some have not.
I am so tired of looking over my shoulder. I don't think anyone understands what freaks these people are.
The last straw for me is becoming friends with the neighbor.
Anyone.......................
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Keep me up on this please! I'm worreid for all of you!
My brakes were messed with when mom didn't have visiation rights but we would meet her at a resturant to visit. I came out to leave and my hood was slightly up and you have to pull the lever inside the SUV, my door was unlocked which I thought I had locked it. Anyway Ri and I had just went shopping and several bags sitting inside plus some cash and it was all there still. I was nerves driving home and the next morning we had someone check under the hood to see if anything had been done. And the main line to the brakes had been undone and redone but screwed on crocked and not all the way, so it had a slow leek.
WE have had many people come inside our place of business taking notes as the watched us, each time it has been really yucky people.
If I reported anything I think I would call the FBI not local police.
Also we found out this last year when we hired a PI many things, but one of them that we found out she called FBI and said she was afraid my husband was going to have a hit put on her.....we have done nothing to mae her think that.But he FBI did a full investation privately on him. We know she is a nark and we have suspected on the fedral level becasue of the stealing mail etc and nothing was ever done even with all the police reports and her name on all of them.But this made us even think further that she is a nark that nothing has happen and to have FBI check him out???
One thing actaully happen, we were at the vist at the resurant and her mom's car's back window was gone and I ask what happen and she said oh my brother was cleaning a mosel loader in the yard and it went off. Many things here did not add up for one I have never seen them back there car up in the drive where the back window would have been shot out. PLus we found out that is impossible, when you are cleaning a mosel loader it is taken apart and it won't shoot at that point. I tihnk becasue all of her drug activity and narking someone may have shot it out but it wasn't a musle loader. Anyway I kind of wonder if she blamed us or simply thought she could blame us for a brownie point.
But see all they have done nothing we say will change it. We have no proof. Now the ad litem in the case and our lawyers know all about all of it. But of course nothing was ever brought out in court.
I feel like our hands are tied in many area's with Ri and I think that is why I get so upset. We are quilty of saving a child, she is quilty of many tihngs but yet we are drug throught he mud while she sits on the stand and acts all inacent and never even admits to hurting Ri or anything else for that matter.
Second,I know you don't want to do this (no one ever does), but you can go into a shelter and they will "hide" you so you will all be safe. They can arrange for you to even go to work, if need be.
Jade, take all this seriously. None of want to scare you, but we are all really, really concerned for your safety. You must protect Ri at all costs. Get out NOW!!
Our prayers are with you and we all care so very much. Take care, Jade, and God bless you.
I am uncomfierable in my own home with knowing they could be out there watching everything I do in the evenings.
We are letting go of our home because of it. I can't deal with it any more. My husband and I built this cabin with our own two hands and it means a lot to us, but he is gone so much in the evenings that I am so fearful I don't want to be out here on this mountain by myself with Rylynn any more.
WE have been dealing with this around 3 years now. I think I said some place two years but it has been 3 years. Stalkng is against the law, but I think you have to catch them at it.
In my 48 years of life and all these years of marrage we never have had any one of these items happen to us it is just to weird that since this case we have it all the time.
Thanks guys for being my bra!