i have had my grandson for almost 7 years. his mother is the gf of my son and is a alcoholic and a felon for child abuse. not my grandaughter, but his half sister. well the questions are starting now from my grandson and i try to explain but am having a hard time. i have told him that his mother, that is what he calls her, is his mom and he can call her that if he wants. he said no, that i am his mom. he knows that i am his grandmother. i do not run down his mother at all, actually we are friendly with her as she has lived with my son for 14 years and really have no other choice. she is included in all family functions. how do i explain to my grandson about his alcoholic mother, she is drunk every night, and how to explain why he is living here and not with his dad! there is more to this but that is all i can put down today. thank you for your help, i need it right now as i dont want to hurt anyones feelings and say the wrong thing.
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