My husband and I have guardianship of our grandson and have had for the last 3 years. He is 5 and will be 6 soon. His mother has been in and out of his life the whole time. She has been back living in this area for alittle over a year now and has had him on and off for the weekend. She has been in a very bad relationship which has produced another grandchild that I fear for but what she has done here of late is heartbreaking. She has made accusations against my husband (her stepdad) of sexual molesting him so that she can get him back. This has been reported to the police and Human Services. Our grandson has been interviewed twice by a child protective worker and a social worker who used puppet therapy and there is no sign of abuse. His day care and school have been questioned and they also have not seen any sign of anything. Well my daughter and her neighbor decided to make a tape of my grandson saying his grandpa does things to him which is horrifying. When I asked him about it he said he wasn't being honest and that his mommy told him that stuff. Well all the other interviews weren't good enough so my daughter turned the tape over to the prosecuting attorney and they ordered him to be taken to a child advocacy center to be interviewed. Did that last Friday and after that interview still nothing. I don't know to what lenghs she is going to go. My husband is contemplating leaving because this is such a horrible alligation and I am hurt because my daughter and my relationship is forever changed. Please advise
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