does anyone ever feel the mosst beautiful gift has been taken from us by no cheice of our own? grandparenting is suppose to be that warm, fuzzy feeling When they come to use for talks because mommy or daddy "just doesn't understand".When we get to spend a day or wknd. with them to laugh, play and snuggle. I have talked to gp. who get to experience this and they just can't wait to see their gc. again. We on the other hand have to be the provider, rule maker, to gc. left because of irresponsibility by the parents. My daughter has been drug addicted for many years, claims to be clean now (she was jailed for 6 months, out for 2 months now) she doesn not mention someday providing a home for her girls, Her plans only involve her and her new bf.She gets to be the "fun" one in her 14 yr. olds life. She gets to be what I would love to be. I get angry about this, but keep it to myself. I have to be thankful that the gc. are safe and not woryy about how or where they are.
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