How do I deal with the anger towards my daughter the mother of my one and only grandaughter? I joined this support group,I'm reading what others are going thru with their kids the "parents" of these children we are rasing.However my daughter doesn't have drug or alcohol problems, she just doesn't "want" to be a parent due to her own selfishness. I had 4 children,I rasied all but one on my own,doing whatever it took to raise them,being a father and a mother. It wasn't easy, but I wanted my children to be kids and not see the difficult part of life. However with all the challanges I have faced this is the most difficult "one of my children acts as if her own child is trash to be put out for collection". My husband and myself have pretty much put our "life" on hold to raise our grandaughter.No trips,no honeymoon,no date nights, basically no life being "grandparents" just"parents" of a 4 y.o. child. My day includes getting her up at 7am for headstart, driving her to the bus stop whatever the weather{I live in Alaska}getting her on the bus,driving home, rushing to get the things done I need to do in my short time,go back to pick her up from the bus...deal with behavior problems from school{everyday}then home again to finish our day to start all over again.My husband works in a remote area, his schedule is 6 weeks on 2 weeks home, so I am again rasing a child by myself for the most part. My anger in my daughters disreguard is eating me up inside,I don't even want to speak with her.Halloween really made me mad she lives close by and I had asked her to participate in taking her daughter trick or treating..She had no interest or "time" instead she went to the bar to hang out with "adults" I don't drink but would have welcomed a much needed break. Please help me, your suggestons are greatly needed.