My partner and I have been together 11 years. We have 2 boys that she had when we met. They are now 14 and 11. Their father has been a deadbeat father the whole time. Well....recently the boys have been saying they want to go visit their dad. He moved to Mo. a few years ago and got married and had another son, all without saying goodbye or anything to the boys. Against what I thought of the situation, my better half let them go visit for a month. The youngest wanted to come back after a week. So, we convinced dad to let him come home. The older one is and has been going through all the teenage shit. We are the enemy cuz we make him stay within boundries. Needless to say... he wants to stay out there. He comes home today (Sat) and I am not sure I want him too. That is where I am having trouble. I feel like I shouldn't feel this way. He has always had issues like lying, stealing (from us too), lighting fires, and just doing everything he shouldn't! While he has been out there he has become so damn disrespectful. He is being fed a bunch of shit from dad. I know this because the things the younger one told me dad said to him. We never said anything about dad in a negetive way because we have morals and kids should never go through that! Anyway I am rambling...I just feel... why should her and I put up with all the shit he does if he doesn't give a shit and wants to be with dad anyway?!?!?
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