
Gay Men's Challenges Support Group
This community is dedicated to the challenges that gay men face, both between the partners in a relationship and from other influences (family, society, etc.). Find support and talk to others who may be facing the same challenges, and share your experience.

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Anyone out there that has had an issue with delayed ejaculation or male orgasmic disorder?
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For me, I would try and enjoy it. Long sessions of sex with someone you care about -- nothing to complain about as far as I'm concerned.
I too had read it was a mental block and went out of my way to make him feel as relaxed and as comfortable as possible on many occasions...nothing I did ever seemed to work. Ultimately we broke off the physical relationship for other and assorted reasons, but I have to say that this issue was a part of why I had to break it off with him. Fortunately, we still remain close friends.
I don't think I've ever considered what is too quick or too long when it came to an orgasm.
I hope you can gain some more insight through your counseling, but it truly isn't something that I would stress about.
I hope you'll see a therapist (as well as your MD) about this and not give up, since you do have someone you love and you still want to have sex. I offer my story to say, "Worst case scenario, you can still enjoy life alone" but I think your situation shows more hope than mine. I was already so threatened by men even before it got around to sex that I probably would have been better at being an octopus than a gay man.