Gay Men's Challenges Support Group
This community is dedicated to the challenges that gay men face, both between the partners in a relationship and from other influences (family, society, etc.). Find support and talk to others who may be facing the same challenges, and share your experience.
i have just ended a relationship of almost 9 years. i was convienced that we had grown apart and that we were just together for convience. i do feel that our relationship had become one of "roommate like conditions" so i ended it just like that. this was how it was fo these last two years. i also cheated on him in the last couple of months.i can now admit and face this......... I MUST TELL YOU, IT HAS KILLED THE BEST PART OF ME INSIDE SINCE, not to mention how much i have turned my ex's life upside down. i have stripped every shread of security, trust and stability from his life. i have left him in a position where he had to learn to be without certain things and out on his own for the first time in his life. this isn't a bad thing, it's just that a little warning would have been nice on my behalf. i know this now. i am saying this because if you are having problems or want to break up,...or think that you can save your relationahip, try to do just that, don't give up, ubless there may be harm to you. don't wake up wondering "IF". i have seen a man who was so strong, so independent and so confident fall to his knees in disbelief and hurt. i will always live with this for the rest of my life and pray that it never happens to me. i did not do this to hurt him, i did it to find my own way in this world. i know i could of done things differently. for this....i am truly sorry my dear friend. i hope that this helps you to understand more than it may give me peace and acceptance for what i have done to you and for what i may face in the end.
hope this helps anyone who is thinking of breaking up.............
i do love the person i am with very much, but i had no right distroying someone else in the process.
take care friends, just wanted to admit i was stupid to think that it is this easy to leave someone who loved you....without a fight
R-
hope this helps anyone who is thinking of breaking up.............
i do love the person i am with very much, but i had no right distroying someone else in the process.
take care friends, just wanted to admit i was stupid to think that it is this easy to leave someone who loved you....without a fight
R-
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
i know that in a way, i was carring him and now that we have gine our own ways, he must do for himself. i am not saying this in a mean way. i have talked with him a couple of times and he is getting better with letting the anger pass and learing to express himself in a calm and collective manner. his feelings do matter to me, i just want others to try and save a relatioonship where possible. he is a great person and will be a great catch for the right. i would like to see others working on things instead of running from it..........
i hope all is well with you and thanks for sharing. i hope to develope a tru friendship with him. i know it will take time but that's all we have in this life. time to tell those we love how speacial they are and how much better our lives have become because of them.
hit me up anytime you want to chat,
Rhino-