well who ever is calling you fat is on crack, not to be rude. to me honestly it doesnt matter. i base things on peoples personality, like you can be the prettiest skinniest person, and if your rude && obnoxious that one major turn off, so ill look at that person as ugly.

Everybody has different ideas about what they define as fat or not. But to be honest,I don't think girls that are so skinny that if they turned sideways they'd disappear are very attractive. If they think your fat, then they're a bunch of insecure idiots.

i htink that no one is ever fat..sure..so what if some people have a lil more meat on their bones than others? wats the big deal. lol i definantly agree with mykaela on this one because it's all about the personality that makes people beautiful or horrible.

6-8 is NOT fat. I mean, yea, if you're seven years old or something.

I wear a ten, sometimes a 12, and I still look decent once in a while. I'm hard on myself, but I know someone who most likly wears a 16 (just guessing) and she always seems to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. And she can be pretty mean sometimes.

So they are realy stupid. DOn't listen to them.

I'm a bit overweight, okay maybe a lot, but if I were looking at someone else the same hight and weight as me, i'd say they were fine.

Hunny...if anything? You're *P.H.A.T*
Pretty hot and Tempting!

i find it depends on the person. Some people don't look good when they are ''skinny''. I find that when people have a hard time supporting their own wait thats when they could be considered fat, when its at the point that its not healthy. Having some meat on your bones isnt a bad thing. Some people tell me that i need some haha but i dont think so. I wear size 3 and im pretty tall so i look skinny to other people but i dont really find i am but im happy the way i am. All that really matters is if you are happy the way you are, dont change it for anyone.

Fat is when youve been deemed overweight or obese by a doctor, and your health is in danger. I'd like to say when youre BMI is over 25, but there's a flaw in that way of measuring and scaling people. Alot of people are mixing confidence, and self esteem with the question...it's great to be confident and give each other confidence about how you look, but I think it often takes away from the issue, which is your health:-)

i think people r only fat if there obese...like a 250 pound, 5 foot 4 girl id consider "fat" becasue she is obese. My boyfriend says hes fat and it bugs the shit out of me but id nvr tell a person that there fat becasue its not cool

whatever you're not fat! wtf? and they're right, it all depends on what people consider fat. but...no not you my dear.

Im 5,9" and a size 14 and far from fat. I think it doesnt matter what size you are as long as you are in proportion. And if im honest, size doesnt matter if there is inner beauty. But I feel sorry 4 people who are ugly on the outside and the inside.

My definition is if you can visibly see an abnormally large bulge at the stomach. An disproportional body maybe.