unfortunately that's just how it is sometimes. Some lesbians think that they're better than bi girls u just gotta take this as a lesson learned not everyone is gonna accept u for who u are maybe she will go out with u, when she feels like u finally figured out what u r
that's pretty much all i can tell u

Ah yes. "Exclusive dykes". They annoy me, cause for some strange reason, certain lesbos think that they can only date other lesbians, which is both immature and ridiculous. Personally, I love bisexual girls! Some of my best friends are bi! However, I'm sorry that she thinks that. Hopefully, you can change her mind.

Most would say that they would not know who to be jealous over. I'm bi. I currently have a boyfriend. It's like, say my boyfriend was bi. I wouldn't know who to feel comfortable about if he liked both. Not sure if that is the answer you are looking for but I asked a lesbian friend on mine that once and that's what she told me

It's more of a Monogamous thing actually I've noticed. I'm Gay myself and it's that some other Gays don't want to date Bi girls because either they're more likely to cheat because they have guys and girls to go for and the other reason is that they think they may be used as an object to get a guy's attention that they like.

It's a protection thing so they don't get hurt if the Bi girl decides to run off with a guy which I've unfortunately heard many stories about.

I honestly have no problem dating a Bi girl myself because I know that every person's personality is different and you can't pigeon hole people. You'd think other Gays would know that themselves after the same thing happens to us by some Straight people.

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personally I would date bisexuals so don't take what I'm about to say as my opinion. But alot of lesbians feel that bisexuuals arn't as steadyily attracted to men, that they might leave them for a man. Also alot of girls these days say that there bisexual when there really just fooling around or checking out the other side of the tracks. Lesbians like dating other lesbians over bisexuals because they know that there fully dedicated to other women and other women only.

Also sometimes lesbians find the idea of their gf's thinking of men sexually a turn-off, like they don't connect sexually as well.

i'm lesbian, and my girlfriend is bi. so its not all of us! ^_^

My girlfriend is bi, although only slightly atracted to guys..and I don't have a problem with it. I found out after I became her girlfriend actually

I guss most lezs are afraid that a bi gurl will end up leaving for a guy..at least thats wut my friend told me. I like both cuz ur able to talk bout both and u have more of a connection with them..thats just my opion

Don't you hate it when people echo what you say with out reading your post? LOL

Nicci
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I agree with NicNac, its a protection thing, stemming from insecurity.
GLBT people have to be very dedicated in their relationships, because they're generally less accepted in the wider community. There's always a fear in any GLBT relationship that a party will leave in favour of a 'normal' relationship, because of the outside pressure. I'm a lesbian and my girlfriend is Bi, and deep down I guess there is that fear, so to counter-act that, it's just a matter of reassurance and security:-)

I am a lesbian but sometimes very rare occasions I may be attracted to guys but I have never had a girlfriend or boyfriend before and I have no problem with bi girls I actually don't see what the difference may be between a bi and a lesbian when it comes to dating a girl. I think you should move on. If she doesn't want you than that is her loss. You will find someone else that will be much better. Good luck with that and I hope you don't hate lesbians for what that girl said to you.

sometimes lesbian feel like if they date a bi girl, that that same girl will end up just choosing a guy in the end anyway. I guess.

i think it's because it varies so much within the bi community. Some bisexuals will like girls and guys equally, or some will prefer girls or will prefer guys. Wheras with a sexuality like lesbian or straight, you're saying that you only like one gender of people and that isn't going to vary. I'm not sure if that makes much sense lol, but that's what i think x

I wouldnt date someone bisexual because I just find it weird how they could just go from guys to girls. I wouldnt like it if they left me for a guy. I would find it hard to trust them. I find that they never know what they want and they screw with your mind alot. I have alot of bi friends and thats all they seem to do in their relationships.