In the spirit of all these identity and stereotyping posts, it occured to me that we all at some point would have come out to some bright spark who said 'Aha, I knew you were gay because..' My most recent was a dense co worker who overheard a friend of mine make a comment about my preferences and said 'ohmigod I knew you were gay when I saw your tongue ring' riighht cos straight girls would have no reason to get it done.

But by far the strangest 'I knew' statement came four months ago at a work function where a dizzy co worker (hmm these co workers of mine aren't coming off to clever!) said when she met my g/f 'wow I wondered whether you were gay because you wore so much green and pink' (I don't, really, and if I did it would never be together lol) at which point I ventured to ask 'err why pink and green' and she replied, 'i dunno, isn't that like gay colours or something?' Clearly we've all been overdoing it with the whole rainbow people! So fly your inner pink and green flag high people and tell me your weirdest 'I knew you were gay' moments!