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so how do u get over someone?

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Ok so i liked this girl but then i went a couple of months without seeing her so i thought i had gotten over her. Last night it was the hockey christmas party and i spent all night talking to her and realised that i hadnt gotten over her.

So to the point of the post. How do I get over her?
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build a bridge? lol. kidding.

Realize that you are a strong beautiful person who doesn't need a significant other to complete your identity.

or...do you know for sure she's not into you?
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I dont know she says she is straight but i guess u never know she could be scared of coming out. That could be wishful thinking.
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Toughest topic on earth I swear
I'm not sure you EVER get over someone you love to be flat out honest. But I think its possible to forget about them and push them back into just being a memory.

Hell you know what screw that. Chase her. Chase her until she hurts you so bad that you know you're over her. If she's straight that can change.

I'm sorry to be confusing but there really isnt a good answer to this question.
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Hey there Gemma,

I think if you really want to get over her and you haven't found a way to do that then its not meant for you to get over. Maybe she is the one for you and this is god, or the universe's (Whatever you believe) Way of giving you another chance at true love. Believe me its hard to find and once you get it please hold on to it.

On another note if you really do want to get over her, stop talking to her and completly cut her out of her life, go cold turkey its just that easy.
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it's never really possibile to make yourself get over someone. It just happens and you move on. Time is a great healer and all that, but maybe you should just tell her that you like her?x
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tell her if you haven't already. that way she can either except you (happy happy joy joy) or turn you down. but ifyou haven't told her then she hasn't turned you down. and how are you suppossed to heal from a wound that hasn't even been afflicted?
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The trouble with telling her is she is a really good friend and i dont want things to gwt wierd between us.

Also to Richard i cant cut her out coz we play hockey together
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