OK so theres this girl. This amazing girl that I fell in love with last year. I never thought I would like her. I always thought "oh we'll just be friends." She was the first bi person that I talked to. She was so nice. I never thought she would be the one to destroy me.

At the time she had a girlfriend, who the more I think about it is almost exactly like me, only more ganster and like idk guyish? I dont really know how to explain it. Anyway shes dating the girl I like. Both were convinced that they were in love and that they were going to be together forver. They broke up in February. (This is a long story).

I'm going to skip the less important stuff but if you want to know more later message me.
So basically me and this girl fought a lot. We went through periods of her liking me and almost going out and then her dating someone else. I never stopped loving her. I never honestly told her I loved her but she knew. She always knew.

Two weeks ago she sends me a text message, "what would you say if i asked you out on a date sometime?" She was being serious. I was confused cuz I had just seen her earlier that day and I didnt think she liked me. I said yes I would go out with you. From there on we flirted back and forth and I went over to her house. It seemed like things were perfect and I was finally getting my chance with her. I knew I had to talk to her. I had to get some answers, but it was near Thanksgiving so I never got them.

The day after Thanksgiving I find out shes dating a different guy, a senior. I cried so hard. I found out later that she never liked me, and that she never asked me out, she just wanted to know what I'd say. I'm still hurting.

Has anyone been through this before? Was I reading too much into what she said with all the hey hunnie, and sweet dreams? Am I that stupid that I couldn't see that she didn't like me? Any thoughts?