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so i need some advice... i have been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now... and suddenly it seems like she is trying to push me away. she no longer wants to try and hang out because she is afraid that her parents will catch her (everything we do has to be behind closed doors for her) i try to understand her position i do... but now it seems like she just doenst want anything to do with me. she suggested taking a break... and i just lost it (and im not one to cry often) she swears that she doesnt just wanna be friends.. but its really hard to believe her. bc according to her i can never do anything right. what should i do? i dont want to lose her but at the same time i dont want her to be unahppy. and another fear is that she just doesnt want to break my heart so shes staying in it so she wont...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
best of luck to you though, I know how it feels
unfortunately i don't have any advice for you, otherwise i wouldn't be in that situation
sorry :/
My advice would be to take a good look at yourself. Focus on you, as hard as it is. You're the only person you can control. There's no point hypothesising about how your girlfriend may or may not feel, and what she may or may not do, because you can't control that.
If you are being hurt or are unhappy with the relationship at the moment, then you need to make some decisions that are best for yourself. As hard as it is, and as much as you want her to be happy, you're important too. Don't accept disrespect from her. If she's pushing you away and leaving you in the dark, let her know that it's not okay to treat you like that.
Explain to her that if there is a problem, it needs to be confronted. If the bottom line is that she's not comfortable enough being with you because of her family or whatever, then that needs to be dealt with. You can't pretend like everything's fine, or expect yourself to come to terms with it over time. Search for the truth in the situation and try to accept it. Treat yourself and your girlfriend with respect. Good luck in this tough time:-) All the best