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i think im trying to hard

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deleted_user
its always seems the if i feel for someone, i always find myself doing something wrong.. it sucks., but its like i feel so lonely that i need to try.. im soo confused.. is it just me? Am i running them? Im i not that attractive..? I'm so lost!
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You aren't the only one. Most likely you care for them so much you are scared, so you mess up so you don't have that pressure to mess up.
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Your not the only one it happens to me all the time i cant keep a a guy causei start to like someone and then i screw up i think ur afraid of something sub contesly and so u screw things up to avoid what ever ur affraid uve im guessing
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^_^ ive been saying the same thing
i'm not sure what to say but eventually we'll find one person who can make us happier that anything
i just think were all alittle to desprate too soon
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deleted_user
*hug* No, hun, it's not just you.

I've developed this theory. To make a relationship work, you need TWO people, right? So if it doesn't work, most likely both people are doing something wrong, or there's not the right KIND of connection there. neither the kind of connection or the reactions of the other person can be the fault of, in this case, you.

It also might just not be the right time in your life for that relationship to work.

It's not your fault though. It may just not be meant to be. There are too many variables for you to have control over. Just do your best, and try to enjoy it when you are in a relationship.
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We all have that problem. And you're very pretty, if i personally knew you i would ask you out or at least have a major crush on you so you're all good hun.
shaun233
shaun233
I understand you. You're not alone in this, just remember that. I've never got into a relationship with anyone, not even a girl so I'm not very experienced on that point, but you'll definitely find someone.
I agree with Angelic VP. I'm gay and I think you're pretty, so just don't give up hope.
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Yes you are attractive... I feel the same way all the time I know I want a relationship but i dont even know how to begin lol. Your not the only one its just hard i guess. Keep trying and dont give up its bound to work out at some point.
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