Gay & Lesbian Teens Support Group
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Hey guys (me again!) um just wondering, is there any way that you can tell a girl is gay? any way at all? and how do you ask her out? :S it's really hard!! sorry for being such a loser lol >.>
deleted_user
lol i just want to start by saying that your definantly not a loser haha it's a decent question. For me, i like to get to know the person better, like, subconciously(i don't know how to spell that) go on a date with her. for example just go out to get a bite to eat at wendy's or something..just to get to know them better and if they feel the same way about me as i do them...then things happen. sorry that's all i got
kdl123
Never had a girlfriend but I have met a few "in the closet" lesbians. What I did was just spend time with them, ask their views on gay and lesbian people and just get to know them. Eventually they told me.. Just gain their trust and maybe as about their experience with the opposite or same sex (Once you get to know them of course. Don't let that be the first thing you say to them)
deleted_user
their's no real way to tell. there are steriotypes but many of them are not always acurit. like me for example. I don't dress like a guy, I like to dress up and I'm still gay. so yah. I guess when you are hanging with your friends, and a subject like 'gay' comes up, maybe there are ways you can tell if one of them is gay. Like I said, there is no real way to tell, accurately, that is.
alimac2009
I honestly don't know myself I am shy and I just recently came out of the closet so my family and select friends know but I think that the more people that know that your gay the more people feel more comfortable about coming out of the closet to you. I don't even know how to tell if someone is gay. I think my gaydar is broken. I don't know if this helps or not but I hope it does.
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