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how do u knw if u are or not?

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all of my friends have been telling me for this last month that i am no longer bi that i am a full on lesbian! i have never been wit a gurl but i knw that i like gurls more then guys. i jus i dnt knw if i am a lesbian or not i think i am but i dnt want to grow up saying i am a lesbian but then finding a guy i like and getting with him cause for some reason i would feel bad! i just i dont know what to call myself if i should say i am a lesbian or if i am bi!!!!!!!!!!
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lol you're thinking about the future way too much. Right now, you only fancy girls and so you're a lesbian but in the future if you find a guy who you fancy then you can class yourself as bisexual. Do you fancy guys in general? or is it just girls?
Just go with the flow lol if your sexuality changes then that's fine! Our teen years are all about figuring ourselves out and what we like. Labels aren't the only things that matter :) x
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I agree with tradings.... you can classify yourself for now...on what you think you are...but you can always change it when needed...lol
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Never ever let anyone tell you who you are! Only you can know and if you aren't sure now in time you'll work it out.

Don't worry too much and just enjoy yourself, when you find out whether you've decided to stick completely to girls or whether you like both just be proud!

Nicci
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I'm in the same position as you. Its wierd. So try this. Tell them you don't like labels and that you are who your are. Gender doesn't matter the only thing that matters is what you feel for them. What makes your heart beat. Don't worry too much about it, It'll work out in the end hun.
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LABELS, LABELS, LABELS!!! Bi,Lesbian,Gay, Straight....theres just too many....who cares!!! listen dude, do you like chicks?.........yes?.........good (me too,lol)....you like guys too, right ?(just not as much).....SO WHAT,that does not change who you are or what you can do. what you call yourself as you grow up isnt important at all, its what you do with what you like that matters. those who have made up their mind completely and live their life by what they call themselves are lucky.....i guess. but my advice is not to go all "this is what i am and i'm sticking to it". dont be gay or bi or lesbian or any of that bull; just be you.totally you and if "you" likes :guys and chicks, but chicks more; but not till the point where you give up dudes completely, cause you still like guys, but not nearly as much as girls; but you've never been with a chick "like that" and your not sure if......blah blah blah. then thats who you are. accepted it. like it. love it, and ROCK ON, DUDE.
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