Gay & Lesbian Teens Support Group
This community is dedicated to teens that identify as Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual or Transgender or are questioning their sexual orientation. It's a supportive community where LGBT & questioning teens can give or get advice from their peers or just hang out. Please do not join this community unless you meet the description above. Thanks!
Hi everyone, I haven't been on the board in a long time, but wanted to say thanks again to everyone who's offered to talk and answer my questions.
My son hasn't mentioned anything to me lately - I think with the excitement of the holidays and all the activities he suddenly has happening, it's been pushed to the back of his mind.
We have talked about school and his friends and things like that, so I'm trying to keep the communication lines open. I've also told him countless times that he can come talk to me anytime, no matter how busy I seem. That usually seems to work when there's something on his mind.
I don't feel like I really have much...if anything...to contribute to this board...
1) I'm not a teenager, so I really have no idea what you guys are going through. I'm only 20 or so years older than you guys, but I'm sure that seems ancient to you all! haha
And things for you are so much different than when I was your age.
2) I'm straight, so I can't help with questions or advice in that area either. Life as a teen was hard enough being straight - the challenges you all face from society is something I can't even imagine.
I feel like I'm a taker here...but you all have been very nice and supportive and I really appreciate it!
If anyone DOES want an honest adult's opinion about anything, let me know. I'd like to be able to give back a little at least, if there's an area I can do that in anyway.
Thanks again! :-)
My son hasn't mentioned anything to me lately - I think with the excitement of the holidays and all the activities he suddenly has happening, it's been pushed to the back of his mind.
We have talked about school and his friends and things like that, so I'm trying to keep the communication lines open. I've also told him countless times that he can come talk to me anytime, no matter how busy I seem. That usually seems to work when there's something on his mind.
I don't feel like I really have much...if anything...to contribute to this board...
1) I'm not a teenager, so I really have no idea what you guys are going through. I'm only 20 or so years older than you guys, but I'm sure that seems ancient to you all! haha
And things for you are so much different than when I was your age.
2) I'm straight, so I can't help with questions or advice in that area either. Life as a teen was hard enough being straight - the challenges you all face from society is something I can't even imagine.
I feel like I'm a taker here...but you all have been very nice and supportive and I really appreciate it!
If anyone DOES want an honest adult's opinion about anything, let me know. I'd like to be able to give back a little at least, if there's an area I can do that in anyway.
Thanks again! :-)
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
im still debating
OK if your child came out and told you that they were hurting themselves what would you do? Would you call a doctor as soon as possible or chalk it up to nothing and let it be?
Inverted...
I would absolutely want my child to come out to me. That's kind of why I'm here on this board - my 10yr old son recently told me he thinks he's gay. But...apparently not all parents feel the way I do. It's hard for me to say what you should do since I don't know your parents, but if you feel safe in your relationship with them - have they supported you with other life decisions, can you talk openly with them on other topics - then perhaps they'll be understanding instead of judgemental.
I hope it works out for you.
dearjackie,
if my son told me he was hurting himself, I would seek help IMMEDIATELY. Hurting yourself in any way is a cry for help, and a cry that I would not ignore.
I wouldn't want my son living with that kind of pain, and I would do whatever it took to make things ok for him.
I'm concerned for you - if you are hurting yourself or thinking of doing something like that, please talk with someone you trust that can help you through this. Do you have a favorite teacher or coach or someone like that?
(((hugs))) to you both.