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Alright.
So, my question is.
What is there that I can do to have myself taken seriously as a lesbian?
It has been brought to my attention that some people in my school don't actually think I'm gay.
And that I'll have one girlfriend, and that's it.
NO. NO NO NO.
Have they not heard me speak!?
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The discussion part is;
does anyone else have this issue?
People not taking you seriously in your sexuality?
And if so; how do you deal?
So, my question is.
What is there that I can do to have myself taken seriously as a lesbian?
It has been brought to my attention that some people in my school don't actually think I'm gay.
And that I'll have one girlfriend, and that's it.
NO. NO NO NO.
Have they not heard me speak!?
:[
The discussion part is;
does anyone else have this issue?
People not taking you seriously in your sexuality?
And if so; how do you deal?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
for what you could do, in school, is find some gay girls and flirt with, thell others about the great chats that you guys had. How funny they are, and maybe people will start to think that you really are into girls. maybe. you could try that. I try not to do this at school. but if you want people to know, then go for it.
Try not to just spurt it out randomly though cus that would be weird :D
And I don't have this, I have the opposite.. weird people who I've never spoken to won't leave me alone so they can have a 'gay friend'
So annoying!
I mean, I talk about girls ALL THE TIME.
That's not the issue. It's just people's generalization of 'what a lesbian should look like'.
Yeah. And I'm not going to fit any stereotypes just so people can tell.
just because you have a pretty face..doesnt mean u cant be lesbian as im sure you know..
pity the majority comes from my supposed best friend. it hurts to think that the people so close to you will deny who you really are just to save their repuation.
How do i deal with it? i dont really....
i talk to my awesome girlfriend about it and we work through it together :)