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does anybody know what im talking about?

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so i came out to my friends and they are all cool about it,

but they dont really understand what it means to be a lesbian i guess.

cuz everytime we see a girl in a skirt or something they all think that im like turned on or something.
even when we see a picture advertising a bra or something they make stupid little comments.

they dont understand that just because im a lesbian doesnt meen that im atracted to every girl.

its getting really old.
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They'll get over it once the novelty wears off just let it slide or come out and say 'seriously? Do you get off on every dick that walks past your way? No? Well then assume the same and quit being jackasses.' lol or something to that effect - feel free to paraphrase - it'll get easier.
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when people are messing with you like that, it's because they want to get a reaction out of you. if you say something and get all worked up and pissed off, i'm not saying they'll be happy that your mad, but they will definentaly be intertained and it will give them something to talk about later when your not around. if you just keep it simple, polite, and quiet and say "hmm.. she's not my type" it will eventually go away. what is your type by the way? just curious : )
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i know wHAT you mean. or if you come out to them, they are like "so wait...did you ever have a crush on me?"
arg it's annoying. so to answer your question, yes, i have felt this way before.
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Yup definaltly know what you mean. A good majority of my friends happen to be guys so yes I hear the comments...nonstop.
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ah that sux.
i hate that
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yer my friend naomi is like that say if like me were tlkin bout a music video n how the girl is like hardley wearing anything she always says sumink like yer u like that dnt u emma n shit n same with adverts n stuff its really annoying
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One of my friends also did that a bit at first, and the whole "did you ever have a crush on me" thing which I made pretty clear that I really wasn't attracted to her and she backed off me.

Most of my mates are guys anyway, and they really wouldn't give a shit if I liked boys, girls or sheep - anyway you get what I mean, LOL. They like the fact that they have a girl to talk to about their girlfriend troubles who has first hand expirience.

Make them know how you feel and tell them to just back off and remember - if there's no reaction from you there's no fun in them trying to piss you off.

Nicci
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i hate when people do that like one time i saw my teacher from realy far and said who was that because she looked like a new student then the kids started a rumor saying i'm sleeping with her it sucks
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