Ok as some of u have see i went to ER monday sick as dog, come to find U had a severe adhesion that looped around my small bowel and caused an obstruction. I was operated on friday. this seems to have gone well, still concerns with my liver enzymes being up. my platelets are going back to normal.. the wole experience has been made exponentially worse by my roommate. Someone please take the pillow outta my hands before i smother her. it all started with them bringing her into my room which is only big enough for one patient but they decided to stuff her in with me at 2 am. apparently she hurt her back getting out of tub and needed to be admitted for pain management. this woman according to her bed is 356lbs. she has done nothing but complain about everything since she been here. she told doc she was sick of not being able to go bathroom on her own, she has a potty chair set up next to her bed which is only 5 steps from shared bathroom. her doc tried to talk to her about moving around even if its to hang her legs over side of bed, she refuses to do that. doc advised her to cut down her calories, she bitched she didnt have access to enough food cause she is on glutton free diabtetic diet. she told him calories dont matter as long as she is eating the food she can tolerate (and the spineless doc let her talk to him like that) she insisted to dietary that they send her double portions and then complains how awful the food is, she then takes two to two and a half hours each meal, eating every last bite off her tray plus foods that were brought in for her from outside, all she does is EAT. then they try to get me to eat a teasppon of broth (or if i get a visitor) she chooses that time to go poop in her pottychair and stink up the whole room. I say how am i suppose ton have an appetite under these circumstaces. for more salt on the room. I get migraines so i choose to have current pulled so the lite (and seeing her) doesnt bother me. she will turn every lite on her side on (brighter than the sun) and refuse to turn them off even at 4 in the morning. I try to be considerate by having my tv on CC she turns hers on full blast and just like with lites, she refuses to turn off, nurses turn down aftr she falls asleep at 4am. Living with this 3 toed sloth has made me sicker than what i was before i got here. thanks for letting me rant
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