Many of you seem to be (or were) worried about the actual surgery where I seem to be more anxious about the post-op complications. Well, the surgery too but mostly post-op. I fear I will be a nervous wreck for the first month waiting for the doo doo to hit the fan. I've read where life threatening ones (like PE and leaks) can happen up to a month out. Granted, the percentages are low but I am a worry wart by nature. Were you given signs of what to look for and instructions on what to do "if." I guess I am wondering if I will be able to differentiate between leak symptoms and dumping. Ugh! Pray for me, I am such a wus.
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