How do you make the obsession that most likely plagued all of us at one time stop post surgery??? I am not hungry, I am eating what is on my diet, but i drive past a fast food joint and want to cry because i CAN"T go there. Stupid i know! I thought i had the right mindset before surgery and in the beginning it was easy to not want anything because i was home all of the time, but now....being mobile and feeling good...how do you convince your mind to let it go and focus on something else?? I tell myself that it would make me sick and i realize that and get what it means...i think its more depression from being removed from a social setting that has always been present.
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