I really dont want to offend anyone, but I feel like you'e supposed to come to a support group and be able to express how your feeling and get advice. Lately I feel like instead of supporting, some people tell me I shouldn't feel how I do ( ie. discouraged) or I ask for examples and people tell me everyone is different. I'm looking for what you are going through to help me get through. Most people obviously don't agree that I have the right to be discouraged b/c of my weight loss stopping b/c I lost 60 lbs, but I do. 25 of that was pre op and I'm looking for someone who feels the same way, not to be told not to feel. And as for my post where I asked what people eat. I'm trying to better my diet and learn how to eat well but nobody will tell me what that looks like.... Sorry. Again I don't want to offend..
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