I feel so alone, other than you guys on here! I had surgery in August 2008 and had quite a few complications. Now, my husband seems to constantly throw it in my face about my having the surgery. Me and my surgery seem to be to blame for everything that goes wrong in our lives, such as my son having trouble in school. I wonder if there is a grain of truth in it that I have been focused on myself and let other things fall by the wayside... How does everyone cope with having a family and trying to take care of yourself also? I really don't have much of a support system or time to go to support group. If it weren't for you guys, I would probably be bonkers by now. Thanks for letting me vent, it helps a little.
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