I am reading a book that states that every addict has an enabler. I guess I am my own enabler and have been from the start. I wonder if anyone else has this issue and any advice would greatly be appreciated. I have no one to turn finances over to or to say "enough is enough" other than myself. I am looking for any tools that might help me understand how to better deal with this. I know several of you say "go to meetings" and that isn't an option for me right now. I will take advice from anyone as I am seriously trying to deal with this addiction and get back to living again.
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