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Dreaded xmas work do's

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Starting this one off because the issue is in a lot of journals coming up for xmas, what to do about the work xmas party when it involves gambling venues.

For me I said I was busy that night so they offered to change the night DOH. Still a predicament.

Last year I didn't go because I chose to say I was going and to my shame gambled all night elsewhere, this year I don't want to go because I don't want to gamble. Go figure. I am hard to please.

I have decided I am not going as it is too risky, just have to explain it without letting on what my issue is. I don't want to announce it at work, it is the one place I may never announce it. So still pondering this one?
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You need to do whatever you can to stay gamble free. i have my daughters dance concert and it is at a gambling venue, but I will walk right past. i have a chaperone. i have one of my daughters best friends with me, I did this on purpose to help me, perhaps you could do the same with your work do, go with someone who you know won't gamble, this could help.
Wishing you all the best
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Never put yourself in a situation that could destroy your journey of recovery.
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you don't have to provide a detailed explanation as to why you won't be attending. Like Mike said, just tell them you won't be attending cause you are committed to something else. THey don't need to know that your committment is to your recovery for your gambling addiction.
You are right, its way too risky, and even though I am sure you would like to go to the Christmas Party, some things just aren't worth the risk.
hugs
Danya
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Oh, I wouldn't put myself in that situation, too dangerous even with a chaperone. Without disclosing your addiction to everyone at work, simlpy tell them you have other plans. Period.
Stay Strong,
Hugs,
Liz
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