I have been in a committed relationship with my partner for 18 years. We raised my daughter together and I planned on spending my life with her. This past March I asked to borrow her cell b/c mine was upstairs and when I opened it up there was a sexual email from another woman. I then found out that they had been having an affair for about a year and talked for a year before that. I am so devastated and crushed and find it hard to make it through the days. She told me that we would work on the relationship just a while ago and just 2 days ago she said she tried but can't do it so she will "eventually" leave me. In the meantime she is acting like it is no big deal and all I do is cry and hurt. We own the house together and I cannot afford to move out and pay for two houses. I would appreciate any advice you could give, I need to have some friends for support. I hope some of you out there would be willing to helop me!
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