If you think you should see a therapist go for it. Older generations don't get it that we deal with these things today because society has changed and new conditions are being defined when before they were swept under the rug and not talked about. My dad used to be a lot like your mom in that respect. He's changes a lot, couldn't tell you why but it's easier to talk to him now. Go for it. I saw a therapist for a while and it was one of the best things I could have done for myself. Actually I'm thinking about going back because I am under a lot of stress.

take your own intuition seriously and get yourself checked out. my parents didn't take mer seriously either, and here i am ten years later still dealing with it! better sooner than later, dear. With all respect for your mother, she might simply be ignorant concerning binge eating disorder, as it is something that has only recently been named as a medical condition.

I can relate. I'm so scared to tell people. I'm afraid they won't believe me, or won't understand. I can't tell you how many times I've wished and prayed for a different addiction. Something like narcotics or alcohol. . . something more acceptable that people can understand. Crazy, I know.

When I first realized that I had an eating disorder and that there was something very wrong with me when it came to food, I sunk into a very deep depression. It was so overwhelming and scary for me to come to terms with.

It helps to talk to people. If you don't think people will be supportive or understanding, then find someone who will. For me, that is a therapist and an OA fellowship. This week I plan on telling my doctor everything, which is definitely another scary step. But slowly, I think it needs to come out.

So yeah. . . talk to someone. If it can't be your parents, then make it someone else. Therapists are usually very unbiased and supportive :)