My husband overspends and literally brings this family down. Half of his check is gone before we even get it and this month I can\'t even pay our car payment so now thanks to him we will be behind on that. Nor can I finish my christmas shopping for our children. All of this he pulls when I just lost my Dad on the 5th and my Grandmother on the 14th of Dec. I let him have it two nights ago. We had the biggest fight of our marriage, but you know what I didn\'t even care what came out of my mouth. I said things that even shocked me. I hurt him I know I did but I am not fixing this, he is going to have to this time. That night he got his things and for the first time ever in our 16 years of marriage he slept in a different room. I was kind shocked I have to admit but I was relieved at the same time. We have not spoken to each other since we fought. WE are civil in front of the kids but if we manage to end up in a room alone we do what ever it was we came in there to do and then leave as quickly as possible. I don\'t know what will come of this but I am preparing myself for the worst.
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