Hello all, sort of new here but here goes. My spouse and I have been together for 15 years. About two years ago we had some financial issues aka they used all of our credit cards to pay bills and charged like 15,000 dollars along with other things. We did refinanced the house and paid off the cards. Went into counseling and they apologized for lying about it. Okay move forward, I just found out they did it again, charged 10,000 in every day bills. They said they did not tell me so I would not get upset. All I know is they lied AGAIN. We did conflict resolution yesterday and they are agreeing to go to counseling but what I am mad at is our lifestyle really has to change. We go out for dinner lots, I do business lunches all the time and I have to admit we live beyond our means, now I feel as though not only do I have to deal with my trust issues with my spouse and I get life has to change a great deal.....and so I am angry and scared at the same time.
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