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Is it wrong dating someone cause they have money?

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I have been in relationships when I knew I was not into them or even attracted but because they spent money on me and gave me money for anything at any time I still dated them. I know that it may sound shallow but I am sure alot of people have done it. How about you?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sure, around here it's called "prostitution.
If they know thats why you're there fine but if they think you really like or love them that's just wrong.
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deleted_user
I would have too much guilt.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Would be hard for me. He is buying your attention. I can't imagine being around someone I don't really bond with. I deal with many wealthy people, and I can't stand them, of course there are some lovely rich people and I prefer to deal with them. I don't like something for nothing, after awhile he is going to want something in return , I hope he never finds out you are just using him, not good for him or you.
bigguy3
bigguy3
Boy, you sound like my ex-wife. I thought she married me because she loved me. It turns out she married me because she believed I had good "earning potential" that would allow her to spend as much money as she wanted. In reality, I do make a pretty good living, but she was spending much more than I was making. Net result, she wanted out of the marriage after 14 years and three children. Her spending problem buried us in $75k of debt. I am left hold the bag on $50k of that debt.

I am sure that there are lots of people out there that use others for money. All I can say is that I hope Karma kicks you in the teeth.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I too have been offered such 'relationships' from men, with promises of presents, travel etc.
Without an attraction or interest in them however it didn't matter if they owned a sailboat or had lots of expensive toys, I wasn't willing to give up my time for them or their money.
Everyone makes their own choices in the matter based on what they want and what they are WILLING to accept and do to get what they want!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Whatever makes you happy.

Love makes me happy...no matter how much money a person has, if I cringe at the thought of making out with him, then there is no way in hell I would be with that person.

Some girls like guys who are handsome.
Some girls like them built.
Some even like them scrawny, brainy, geeky.

In other words to each his own. If your preference is someone with money, then it's your preference. If you are not hurting the guys' feelings, then he is getting what he wants and so are you.
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