this is what...her 3rd trip to the ER ??
why is she NOT getting the help she so desperately NEEDS ?? why are they sending her HOME again ??
I am so happy she has a REAL MAN in her life that does all he can do to HELP her...God Bless him !!

Ok I dont understand this hospital. Usually they admit you for 72 hour hold the first time you are brought in suicidal. Am I missing something. Chily hun you are a true friend.

I agree!!!
She is in the wrong place or has the wrong Doctor.. How can they let her suffer this way??? They should all lose there license!! I feel..

her hubby said third time and they should keep her so pray they do i will add more when i get it thanks jess

Well from my own personal experience they should have kept her the 1st time as usually they can be sued big time if they allow a suicidal person to leave. Stupid medical professionals (use the term loosely)

i so hope that the hospital can help her this time...she must be suffering and in terrible pain............she's in my thoughts and prayers as is her husband and rest of family.....God bless both of them and may he be there giving both of them his strength and love......love and hugs Ellie

I would question if she is getting proper pain management. I think my most depressed periods have come when I was hurting so bad, I couldn't sleep, which can push even a healthy person into a deep depression. Heck, the use sleep deprivation as TORTORE, for heavensake. I live in California where we have much better pain treatment protocols. My mother, who had FMS and lived in Florida, had to fight to get her pain treated. She had this before it has a name and her doctors thought she was either crazy or a drug addict. She wasn't. She had FMS. Even up until her death a couple of years ago, when she was being treated by Hospice, she wasn't getting enough pain meds. She was writhing in pain when they finally gave her a Fentenil (sp) patch, which did the trick. I'd really support getting that pain looked into as well as the psche treatment. Kudos to her husband. It takes a brave partner to stare in the face of this disease.

he is so sweet and calls me alot so he can vent and ask what to do for her he is very good to her she is talking more to me and that is a good sign so i am hopeful i think it is the pain that is bad right now and the fact that she cant do anything that she used to that is bothering her the most i keep telling her to fight and that she is strong she is getting mad at the docs she is so funn i just love her i now it is hard for her right now but i truly beleive she will pull through thank god we have each other to help us there are so many who have no one on there side you all have given me so muc love that i have never had before and that alone is the most amazing gift to give so thank you so much for all you are doing .all my love jess

Will send more hugs Chily. Don't forget yourself Sweetpea, you get hugs too!!
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Yikes I don't know about that hospital!I am glad she has you as a friend and many others not to mention a supportive husband. You and they are in my prayers marilyn

I'm sorry guys. I just am not being helpful at all right now. I managed to catch the flu, so I'm not helpful to anyone right now. It wouldn't do her good to talk to me, cuz I sound awful. But I'll do my best to stay informed. Chily, hon, please call me when you have updates, or send me a message. I'm just stuck in the bed right now, so I'll get it right away.
God bless that sweet lady. Dixie is a sweetheart, she's hilarious, and always putting up a brave face for everyone.

And don't even get me started on Chily. She's be the one I'd call if I needed anything. She's a true friend. Even tho she feels crappy herself, she won't even talk about it. She's focused on Dix, and that's........a real friend! Love you both guys!

i dont have the hole story yet but they gave her a shot and are sending her home she is so up set but tim said he would tell me why later and couldnt talk yet so thats all i have for right now very sad to here it there better be a good reson for this im so upset for her

Im praying so hard Please yall join me in Prayer!!!!!!!!!

God bless and hugs and may their Guardian Angels work overtime on this hugs and love to all that are involved xxoo My prayers go out to all concerned & best of luck!!!

NEW UPDATE:

::sigh::

The ER released her AGAIN! The did give her a shot of dilaudid for the pain, but we all know that will only last for a few hours, assuming it actually helps the pain.

She saw a doc who just didn't take her issues seriously, and didn't treat her obviously. These docs at the ER are just not qualified to treat something as complex as what Dixie is going through right now. And of course, none of them want to give narcotic pain meds.

The doc on duty wants her to see a therapist on Monday, so we will see how that goes. Tim, her hubby, is hopeful though. All of the love and support is really helping, and the fact that Chily is walking him through all of the steps of what is going to happen, because she's been where Dix is, is really, really helping him. He is so thankful for all of the support for his wife. He has said that he is going to start taking a LOT more of the responsibility off of Dixie's shoulders, so she can deal with what she needs too.

Please keep praying, HARD, that she will get in to see a doctor that REALLY is interested in not only treating her depression, but her pain. We ALL know what being at a 10 pain level, without a break can do to us emotionally. It's a blessing that she's getting all the support from us, but she NEEDS a doctor to help by addressing ALL OF HER ISSUES! So please pray for that.

I'm also asking for prayer for Chily. She is so tired, not because of this situation with Dixie so much as because she is dealing with some personal issues herself. She's not sleeping at all, and we also know what that can do to us.

Please keep sending lots, and lots of hugs to Dixie and her hubby and don't forget Chily. Dixie was able to pop on for a few minutes to just check her hugs, and it brought a smile to her face, realizing how much she was loved and missed. So PLEASE keep them coming.

I guess that's all for now. Chily or I will do our best to keep you all as up to date as we possibly can. We know you all love her trememdously, and want her back. Thank you so much to everyone who has taken this seriously, and supported her, without criticizm. You all are amazing!