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Good morning!
Dixie's behavior was off this morning. She didn't try to boss anything. Hmm...
Hubby has a nasty upper respirtatory virus. And, of course, since he has that stupid weird blood cancer disease lurking in the background... Every sniffle is a potential panic attack. Nice hot teas, homemade soups, etc., already in action. (BTW, ginger and a bit of orage juice with a scratch of orange peel seem to be going down a treat with Hubby. Orange-ginger tea. Never imagined he'd get that adventurous, but hey! He actually tried it!)
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So why would a giant storage vat of molasses go boom?
Yeah, I know, but it really has happened. The Great Molasses Flood of 1919 occurred in that most straight-laced of cities: Boston. Why do I mention that? Well, the molasses was stored there to use in manufacture of alcohol (and this is Boston, notorious for its reputation for being uptight, LOL). That alcohol was used for booze and making munitions for World War One. (Well, the bnooze was for general consumption...)
Anyway, because of increased manufacture demand? Supply wasn't always taken care of as ideally as it could be. So they stored a couple million gallons --- literally, about 2 million *gallons* of molasses, a byproduct of sugar manufacture known to be thick, brown, sticky, and basically impossible to pour in cold weather --- in a vat that everyone pretty much knew was in need of replacement and repair.
How bad? They were holding it together with caulk. Yeah, I know. Caullk. And wire. And patches. Basically, this 50-foot-tall vat was nothing but a disaster in the making. In fact, prior to the Big Flood --- which, btw, ironically occurred in January (putting paid to the saying "slower than molasses in January") --- people were accustomed to some leaks and odd noises.
Naturally, the neighborhood was poor, and nobody much cared, and then... on January 15, it reached a balmy 40*F in Boston. This is still not a great molasses-pouring temperature. (I live in the US South and summer's about the only time that stuff moves along at an acceptable speed, IMHO.)
So why did it go boom?
Molasses makes alcohol. That is, it ferments. And that tank was topped off six months earlier, in July. Fermentation equals carbon dioxide gas. (Hence fizzies in beer.) The leaks weren't enough to siphon off the pressure, not leaste because carbon dioxide bubbles go *up* and the molasses did not... And repeated leaks didn't let off *enough* pressure.
Well, there on Commercial Street were homes, taverns, fire houses, you name it, all kinds of things... And none of them wealthy... Then the vat finally gave way. Possibly the thaw to 40*F, possibly this, possibly that --- but when the vat blew, the steel vat became shrapnel encases in, weirdly, molasses.
Molasses doesn't act like water. It has what's called a "low Reynolds number". Now, water is a happy high number, meaning you can swim along and move easily, but molasses? Forget it. Swimming actually can drown you faster. How? You get moving, and the molasses not only keeps you stuck in place, it's *because* you're trying to swim. Every action you take? The reaction is for that thick fluid to move in "piles", for lack of a better word. So if you get an arm free, and "pull" it toward you in a normal swimming motion? You're just pulling more molasses toward youreslf. The molasses won't settle down like water and fill the "empty space".
How low is molasses on that magic number? In the low 100s. WHat's water? Around 1 million. Yeah.
So this meters-high wall of molasses goes down Commercial Street. Wipes out buildings, sweeps away people, vehicles, you name it. And people stuck in it? Not a great time. Ultimately, the death toll from the flood (including those who died later of injuries)... was 21, and around 150 injured.
Six years later, the company that owned (and ignored) the tank had to pay out what would today be $8 million in today's dollars to the various survivors and similar. Yes, the lawsuits took that long even 100 years ago. Sad but true.
Now, I meant to post this days ago but found it today on my computer a bit late... so forgive me for missing the 100-year anniversary of the event.
BTW, it took until summer for the molasses that reached Boston Harbor to dilute away enough for the harbor's waters to lose tthe brown hint from the molasses that had been flushed into the water when the molasses flood was cleaned up.
For the record? Molasses is still used to day for brown coloring in beverages, including some cola brands.
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OK, I'm also catching that virus of Hubby's, and I'm about done for the day already (at 9 AM) and I'm exhausted, so... The cats are upset we're not "normal", and I"m gonna grab a catnap before the next round of "tea and broth"...
Wish m eluck and non-sticky TUesday to all!
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Hey, all, really ill today, so just gonna crawl back to bed. Sending hugs and hope for all, and if you're in the way of winter, stay warm and sdafe!
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I had my sleep study cpap titration last night so had to stay there on VERY hard bed, with the stupid cpap. They had to have it up a lot higher than expected but never hooked up the oxygen. So MAYBE i wont need it? But their criteria is lower for needing oxygen than my pulmonary Dr so she decides on the oxygen. I kept waking up and so thirsty my mouth was like cotton. I JUST got home at 4pm i...
I’ve read about the molasses flood before. But it was a long time ago. So interesting to hear of it again. Those poor folks.
I’m still sick and can’t stop sleeping. I slept 11 hours last night. I have no energy at all. I feel useless. Hope this thing passes pretty soon.
More laziness for me today. Tomorrow is bible study if I feel better and the snow stops.
I wish I had a dog to cozy up to today. Yes, I’m still whining about that. We just don’t have the money right now and want our own home first.
Hubby leaves for Florida next week. I hope it’s not snowing when I go to the airport.
Blessings to all.
Still really sick with this cold, im not going to group today. Just miserable. I am drained even if i sleep. I hurt i cant get comfy no matter what.
My depression is really bad today. I have no good reason why but I was in tears earlier. Maybe it's just a lot of little things (the cold, my back hurting again, Miki refusing to poop in the snow and having to walk her twice, having to rush home and walk her midday, having no energy etc). I just feel overwhelmed by everything and I can't deal with it. And I can't afford therapy- $100/month with insurance-and it has honestly never helped me. I don't know what else to do. I feel totally stuck and all the things I do to try to help with it coupled with things I have to do are just burning me out.
ida, I don't blame you for wanting a dog. I've grown pretty attached to the girls yorkies. I'm glad you are resting more today. Don't worry about being lazy, it's called recovery. Blessings to you.
I found a very interesting story about exercise intolerance from Dr. David Systrom, it's really got me wanting to go see him. https://www.healthrising.org/blog/2017/08/16/invasive-exercise-tests-chronic-fatigue-fibromyalgia-autoimmunity/
He has partnered up with Anne Louise Oaklander, another great doctor from Mass General to debunk Fibro and Chronic Fatigue, which both believe they are on the brink of discovering a new autoimmune disease that has to do with our blood vessels. Anne Louise is the doctor that discovered a majority of fibro patients have small fiber polyneuropathy. I listened to a recent interview with Dr. Systrom on Youtube and he said the cause is still uncertain since so many people get it under different circumstances. But that article seems very consistent with what I have thought all along.
I hope everyone has a good day.
Angela, I hope your cold gets better soon. Best to stay home and rest.
Miki, so sorry you are depressed. My therapist told me that depression is from the past and anxiety is about the future. Something to think about. I hope you feel better. Your life sounds stressful.
Twin, interesting stuff from those doctors. It would be amazing if they figure this thing out. Have a good day.
I am struggling physically and emotionally today. My migraine flared so bad last night all I could do was lay with shooting pain in a dark room and try not to breathe too deep or move. So where am I today? In the office of course. I took Excedrin and am going to heat up my heat pack and put a blanket on my lap to try and stave of the cold that is making the fibro so bad. My whole body is tight and in pain. I am so depressed I am just tired of fighting like this. If it doesn't get any better or change why should I keep living just to fight? That's not living and not a life I want to bother with.
Ida I hope you start feeling better soon.
Angela I really do hope you start getting over this soon so you can go to group.
Miki I am sorry that you are feeling so depressed. I wish I had great advice but all I can say is I understand am here for you.
I'm sorry I don't have time to respond to all, but I want you all to know I'm thinking of you and praying for you. I understand your struggles, because I'm right there too. My depression is telling me so many bad things, and I too am tired of fighting, every single day. My fibro pain is off the charts, and all I can do is make it through work and then crash. I cry every single day now. I feel completely worn out, worthless and hopeless.
Hang in there. We can lean on each other. I pray for peace and good health for all of you.
Hi to all who follow and prayers for a good day for you.
Leo, I'm sorry you're both sick and hope it passes quickly. Interesting sticky trivia. At 1st glance I thought you were talking about the 1,400 ton molasses spill in Honolulu harbor of 2013 (http://www.hawaiinewsnow.com/story/23396971/faulty-pipe-caused-honolulu-harbor-molasses-spill/ ), till I saw 1919. I haven't heard of it but wow 21 people dead.
I listened to yesterday's lecture and took about 5 pages of notes on famous Pharaohs, the Valley of Kings (burial site), and a long list of their ancient gods and their functions. A pounding headache then came on so I had to lay down. I tried to paint, but my throbbing eyes wouldn't let me get past a few strokes of the brush.
Sleep finally found me last night and I was happily comatose when hubby woke me (5 ish?) to say he's leaving for work. And I couldn't get back to sleep thanks to Spike loudly announcing his siren meows. I don't think I'll ever need an alarm clock as long as I have him around. 4 or 5 am on the nose: "MEOW! MEOW! MEOW! MEOWOWOWOWOWOW! MEOWOWOW!" (facepalm)
My breast pain is climbing up the ladder, a sign that my implanted birth control device is expiring soon. It sucks that I've had to stay on BC my whole life because I have fibrocystic breast disease and the pain is incapacitating w/o it. I've thought about tying my tubes but the gyno says it may or may NOT help. The night sweats have also returned.
I have another lecture to watch today, and it's about Assyria and Babylon. It'll be juicy with lots of notes, I'm sure. At the end of the week I have a quiz.
Back in a bit.
And those with depression, prayers for peace and joy to find you. I hope you do something happy for yourself this week, like build a snowman, have a snowball fight, go iceskating, make yummy soup, or sip on hot cocoa with a nice friend / relative by the fire.
Ida, I'm sorry your lonely heart has to wait till you buy a house before you can get a pet. I feel for you. Pets are great companions, but they do cost money. Silver's monthly vet bills during his last year got to be like a mortgage payment. I miss him so very much.... but I don't miss those bills.
Twins, I've been dreaming of the day when docs finally figure out what exactly fibro is and the cause(s). I'll have to check out your article.
ZK, hang in there, ok? Praying for you.
Thanks, for the prayers, Autumn. I pray your pain eases up on you, too, you've had such a rough time with it.
Maynard, this is not living, I agree, but hang in there. I know you are a women of faith so you must get into God's word. I'm praying for you and I really wish I could give you a gentle hug and pray over you right now. Hugs
zk, We're here for you and we know how you feel. This pain and isolating life is just so hard to do day-in and day-out. I'm praying for you.
Autumn, thank you! I don't find any relief between seasons anymore. It gets worse when the season changes and then I steadily increase each year. Praying for you friend.
Blue, why does your husband have to be at school so early. I would not want to be waken up that early to say good-bye. Yay for sleep! I've never dealt with that kind of pain in my breast except for when I was pregnant, I can't imagine. I'm so glad the implanted birth control helps. Your class sounds so interesting, but honestly that is a lot of information to obtain and I would bomb that quiz. :-)
Zombie I am sorry you are having such a hard time making it through the days and spending so much time in tears. I'm thinking of you and hoping that something gets better for you soon.
Autumn it does seem that we are all going through this depression together. Thank you for the special prayers, I'll take all of the good I can get right now to help me get through.
Blue I am glad to hear you are enjoying the lectures and getting lots of juicy little tid-bit notes from them. I am sorry to hear about your headache though, I hope you get through today's lecture without that happening.
My pain has now gotten so bad that I had to put my coat on and go in the restroom and unhook my bra just to try and save the use of my left hand. I think it might give me another hour or two but I don't think it will last the rest of the day. At 1:30 I am already exhausted and in so much pain I could just sit here and cry.
The police had to shut down major portions of the expressway last night to do emergency road repairs. The artic cold followed by a thaw has caused heaving and major potholes. There has been a lot of car damage - wheels, tires and suspension.
Mom had a pretty good doctors appointment yesterday. She did the blow test for H Pylori to see if that is the problem with her stomach. For the time being, the doctor has decided to coast and not do much of anything other than watch and wait. I have a bad feeling about that plan...
Leo - I read a book quite a while back that factored in the molasses flood into the storyline. I am sorry that you are both sick. That cold thingee that is going around is pretty bad. I hope that you both make a quick recovery.
Miki - There is a crisis text line that might be helpful to you. You can check out their website. If you want to try it text "start" to 741-741. I am sorry that you are struggling so much. Sending you support and hugs.
Twin - See my post for Miki above about a crisis text line that might be helpful for you. Thanks for sharing that link. I've been to Mass General and it is a very good hospital. I hope that your day at the office is tolerable.
Ida - I am sorry that you are still sick. Just take it easy and rest up. It takes a while to kick that bug. Thinking of you and sending virtual chicken soup.
AngelaJo - The same goes for you. Rest, lots of fluids and keep a close watch on your symptoms. Let us know how you are doing. Hugs!
Maynard - You are not alone. We do understand how horrible you are feeling emotionally and physically. As Ida said, you are an important person and we value you. Hang in there girl!
Hi Zombie - Thanks for stopping by today. I wish that things were better for you. Sending support and hugs your way.
Autumn - Thanks for your comments today to everyone which are always so calming and supportive. I hope that your pain levels are tolerable and you are not as lost as the rest of us. Hugs!
Hi Blue - It sounds like you are fully launched into this semester of school. I was always fascinated with ancient Egypt. I was fortunate enough to see the King Tut exhibit in Chicago quite a few years ago. That was amazing. I understand it is in Los Angeles right now and this is the absolute last time those artifacts will leave Egypt. Your Hubby and Mr. Leo are on the same wavelength this week and obviously have a death wish. I'm sorry that he woke you up. It sounds like a trip to the gyno is in order to get your implant replaced. I hope that your lecture today is as interesting as it sounds. Have a good one.
I need to write a letter and post it today and run my errands. I hope that everyone gets through the day OK. Shout out to Bear, Milily and PuppyMom! I will check back later.