Good morning! Today I see physio doc, yay!
Otherwise? Therapy today is... STOP.
This is used in varying ways to help people not panic in crisis, but it's useful on a bad day. Just sit. Think of your Options, and make a Plan. You may find you have more options than you realize.
For example: "I *have* to make supper! I can't do this, I'm in so much pain, and I have to!"
Think: "Pain. Effort. Supper."
Options: Take-out. Leftovers. Cereal. Go hungry for the evening. Option 1 = driving to pick it up, no. OPtion 2 = no leftovers dammit. OPtion 3 = easiest but am I cheating?! OPtion 4 = I'm hungry, this isn't helping me think clearly! .... Fifth option .... Gotta be a fifth? How asinine crazy can it be? Well, it can be "OK, screw it, dry cereal, not even in a bowl." or it can be "Call for delivery pizza.... but that's money I don't want to spend so..." we end up at "What is easiest to cook with least effort?"
Plan: Add water to pot. Dump in something tha tsimmers for half an hour. Go do other things or rest until 20 minutes are gone, go stir it, and retreat again. *This*, btw, is why I have dehydrated (vacuum-dried) veg and rice/lentils/quinoa etc. so often. Measure. Add water. Add a few herbs. Done in half an hour. Ahhhh.... What do we call it? Well, if there's extra water, it's veggie stew/soup. If there's no water left and it's all perfect, then you're having a "pilaf". (Which just means "rice dish".) If you're carnivorous, an down a microwave, nuke something and set it on the side. Ta-da! Plan!
And now, you have STOP.... and you can go:-)
This, btw, is why I exhaust myself once a week pre-chopping fresh veg, storing in tupperware, and then during week I can just throw it in the pot. One-pot meals are so easy for the vegetarian set. You call it side dishes if you're a carnivore, but that's our main course. I also prep salad greens, etc., but not cucumbers. Those gets squishy and yucky if pre-cut. Zucchini is good for a couple days, carrots and ceelry for all week, onion for the week, etc.
Home cooked from scratch, b/c many many years ago, I was in severe pain, and said STOP! and poof!
OK, I am so freaking tired I can't see straight, so today's trivia is:
Where the heck does Leo get this stuff?
Well, aprtly therapy, and partly this stress management seminar I took for free in, like, 1995.
Or my mom taught me life hacks, as they're now cutely called.
Feeling the bummer and the ick? Found this pic for us to enjoy together....
I thought some of us might find this NY Times article interesting and validating. It's about the reasons that victims of "sexual misconduct" sometimes aren't believed, due to common misconceptions.The word "article" above has a link but here's the URL in case that doesn't work:https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/30/us/sexual-harassment-weinstein-women.html
Good morning. I saw the physio-rehab doc finally yesterday. He relocated two ribs (ow!) and did a bit of acupressure on my neck (ah!) and then he went in to continue the years-long battle against twisty-turned pelvic scar tissue. Which was so twisty-turny, as it happens, my lower abdomen was carrying tons of strain. Feels like I did about 500 sit-ups/tilts. Ouch. But the scar tissue let go of the...