I have experienced drastic changes in my life and I have had to adapt as much as possible , as I know many of us learn to do... I\'d like to share some of these with you and any that might be helpful I would also like to hear.... 1-- I found the most helpful too for me is organization, almost everything has a place and it remains there, it is used and put back there. That way if I can not get to it , I know where to tell someone it is, and it sames times and helps on the stress... 2-- goes along with being organized, get rid of the clutter, the stuff that occupies your time that you so desperately need.. less to dust, less to clean, less to do , less stress, less stress, 3-- Plan ahead when possible,,, 4--- Keep a list, all kinds, to help you. 5-- Do not procrastinate,,, even if this is difficult, this makes life so much easier for you and helps the stress.. 6- Take time to help someone, bring joy in to your life and theirs. 7-- If you are a believer make time for you and God...This is so important, everyday.... 8- keep a positive look on life, even though this isn\'t easy 9-- Know that you are loved.... Do I always do this, no I do not, I am still processing, And one day I can be totally organixed an the next Yuk, but when I do all of these things, the birds sing, the air is fresh and I can breath easier. these things do help, they help me and I know they can help you, too....
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