ya know everyone will have their opinion of fibro and the ppl that have it. I know that I used to be a hard hard worker. I lived in LA. I came here to the South dont know that many ppl I was sick when I got here and just became sicker as time has gone by, 6yrs and I am surely disabled now. anyhow long story short. Noone knows the old be pre fibro except my faithful husband who watched me slip from somewhat beautiful slim smart/funny outgoing woman to somewhat added 70lbs and alot of headaches and more pain and bedtime than I d like to admit. I am thankful for being alive and for the good times and even for the bad. People will never understand what it is like to be a walking dead person in the physical . I am a living spiritual person but my physical body just does what it wants to . Even my own mother says things like" I just push thru the pain" ..Sometimes I just wanna push a button on everyone and say GOD could you please show this person for one single minute what I go thru every single second of ea. day and how strong I am compared to them..cuz I live continually in pain.. I know ppl dont understand but coming here is the only place we can be ourselves and have others understand so when they start saying you are spending 2 much time here its cuz once again they dont understand...best I can say...tk care and just ignore them best you can fibro ppl take more than any other type of ppl I know.. and then some.So next time you hear someone say something neg. think about how strong you really are and they jsut dont know or they do and they feel awful and dont know how to handle it.
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