I did a search, Phil47 did not come up, Ted 46 did. acording to his profile, which contains very little info, he's a 61 year old divorced man who has joined no communities so far. He said something about his goal being to hold onto his assets. I suspect they are the same person, with a name change. I haven't heard from either of them, but I don't know what someone would send that sort of em, especially since he isn't part of our community. I'd ignore him. If he's legit, he'll do a profile and join the communities that apply to him.

I get alot of emails from men looking to date...I NEVER respond and just send them on to Doug...

By the way, saying you are paranoid or on too many meds is hardly helpful!

Thanks Ladybug,

I didn't think I was paranoid or on too many meds!! LOL!

No you arent paranoid. I would send them onto Doug, thats what the team are there for. Thank you for the warning, its not nice reading pervy mail and I am grateful to you for alerting us.

I clicked on Phill 47's name when I got the e-mail. He doesn't belong to any communities, and YES, Vonny I did report the e-mails.
Thanks for reponding y'all. I know I'm not crazy or paranoid. I consider it an invasion of my privacy on a site where I came for support and real friends going through what I'm going through with FMS. If I wanted to be on a dating site I would, but I don't. I have a very sweet boyfriend and he is irate that I got this crap here from these people.

Hugs,
Laurie

Thank you SunshineLaurie, for alerting us to this matter, SunshineLaurie. So far, I have gotten no private e-mails from Phill47 or Ted46. If I do, I will forward them onto Doug so that he can do what he wants with them.

thanks for the heads up marilyn

bump

What an absolute toad!!
Thanks for sharing Sunshine, just sorry that this bloke picked on you, like you need this toad mailing you. Hopefully, Doug will sort it out, let us know if he mails you again yeh? Hugs, Owlxx

I also got a strange pm from Gsmith, another single guy looking for love. He had joined any communities at the time either. I was surprised because I didn't realize there were people out there who thought this was a dating market - boy have they got the wrong place, LOL!

Next time anything like that happens I will report it...hugs jilly

Bumping up for the Sunday crowd

I was getting some pm's from a guy thanking me for emailing him, he claimed i said all these things in my supposed email. I sent him back a message asking to see this supposed email. He wanted to set up a meeting? ha, i of course had never emailed him, i told him that if he contacted me again i was reporting him for harrassment and would have his IP banned. The next day his profile was gone.
He also had not joined any communities.
Strange perverted creeps are everywhere on the net.

Im glad u reported him, im sure he will be gone from here soon, just keep reporting him to doug.

Thanks for the heads-up Sunshine. I haven't gotten any but will report them if I do.

I just got a private message from LifePain, she got one too. Almost the same exact words as the one from Phill 47. I told her not to respond to him, and report as abuse to Doug.

I have a sneaky feeling its the same person only a different name, Hers was from Walter Marc, or Marc Walter , (something like that). They say they are waiting to hear from us on yahoo IM, and give an e-mail address. I deleted them before thinking of looking up the yahoo e-mail addys. I wish I would have looked them up before deleting them.

Hope you all are having a good weekend!

Hugs,
Laurie