your post is very sad. yes the games are fun, but we were a wondrful carring family not too long ago. You could find lots of love and support here. I hope that will be the case again very soon.

Welcome. We are very supportive and the game is lots of fun. stick around and you'll see what a great place it is! hugs

Newbie, hope you stay, and I completely agree with your post. Thanks for your imput!

Newbie, I'm relatively new as well. I've been on other sites but I guess they were moderated. This is all NEW to me (the nastiness and personal fighting). I feel badly about it because stress makes us sicker and we're just making each other hurt more.

I say, give it a chance and hope that the battle will die down. From what I've seen there ARE alot of great and supportive people here.

Ya know, I find that I take offense to things and get upset easily when I lose my perspective and haven't gotten out enough. Maybe we need to take a break from time to time and then come back. It doesn't mean forever.

So if people are fighting, they take a break....I don't see anything wrong with that. They might need it.

I think the perspective has been lost here.

Oh well, I'm hitting the hay.

I hope that everyone has a good, restful and peaceful sleep. Hopefully by morning things will be a bit more positive and uplifting around here.

Love to all!!!
Morus

welcome

it isn't always this crazy

AND SEE I TOTALLY DISAGREE FOR THIS REASON, YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE TO MAKE A CHOICE. THIS QUEEN GAME HAS BECOME A LIFE FORM IN ITSELF AND TAKES AWAY WHY WE ARE HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE, WE ARE HERE FOR COMFORT, SUPPORT, LOVE, AND FOR INFORMATION TO HELP OTHERS THAT COME IN LIKE YOU AND NEED ANSWERS FOR YOUR DISEASE. WE ARE ABOUT FIBRO AND LEARNING ABOUT FIBRO AND TRYING TO FIND A WAY TO LIVE LIKE THIS. I'M GLAD THAT YOU ARE HERE BUT VERY SAD THAT YOU HAD TO WITNESS THIS HUGE FIGHT AND IT WILL GO ON UNTIL WE GET BACK TO THE FORUM IT WAS INTENDED FOR....LOVE...HELEN

Can someone fill me in on the "Queen" thingy....? I'm lost....it's a "game"?

I have to learn the lingo around here....

But I also have to go to bed.....so I'll check to see if there's an explanation in the am.

I am sticking with this site. I think the fights are only natural. And, as we're a bit hypersensitive due to our illness....it's only natural to get easily offended. Happens...and we get over it.

But what IS the "Queen" thingy...? I'm dying to know.

Love to all

morus

Hi Maglet! Welcome! This site is not always like this. I came on and remain because I have some wonderful, loving and caring friends from this site. I like the fact that we can understand and sympathize with each and give each other support. Sure there are going to be problems due to different personalities and also when someone is going through a bad flare, that creates negativity and irritability. I know that is what happens with me. But, usually most understand. Please use this as a support tool and not a place to make fun or think we are not serious about what is going on in each of our lives. We need each other as loving human beings. We pray to God for His divine guidance and ask for wisdom and strength. This we wish for you as well.

Mag, I hope you'll stay. There are a lot of nice people here and a lot of support for those who need it.

There are also some people here who enjoy being the center of attention, and enjoy stirring up trouble. You'll recognize them pretty quickly by their incessant posts - look at the top ten and when you see five of them are posted by the same person it's pretty easy to sort them out.

I agree that we don't need to be "moderated" - that just shuts down the feeling of being free to say what you need to say. We all choose what conversations to take part in - if you don't like the thread go read another one or start your own - don't complain because you don't like the thread someone else started.

Stick around - you'll find friends and support - you just need, as in "real life" to be selected when you choose your friends and confidants.

first let me welcome you to DS. there are some wounderful people here to help and support you when ever you eed it. i have made some very great friends here. as for the fighting it comes and goes. thats what you get from so many people with different opinions. the easyist way to deal withit is if you dont agree with a post or it is a argument the just dont respond to it. there are plenty of other posts with a lot of info and support. i hope to get to know you and if you need anything just send me a message hugs cindy

Welcome to DS this is a great place to find comfort, friends and hugs. You will laugh and cry, bitch, moan, and groan whenever you need or want to. We're here for you either way. I agree to your suggestion about the additonal ratings. If there is anything I can do to help you, just let me know...hugs jilly

Hey there and welcome. I've only been here a week myself and already making some good friends. The people here have been excellent listeners and I have gotten some really great advice. If you need a friend, we are here for you.

Hugs, Jan

WELCOME, if you need information like I did then you will find it here...and someone to talk too that understands stay...I did,t like the QUeen game any way my self...I needed HELP and I HOPE we can still find it togethe!HUGS Becky

Hey, I'm new too. Glad to meet you. I played one time and it was fun. Not like a guys game with all the bloodshed and cursing. I wasn't sure I wanted to do it with a bunch of chicks, but I liked it more than the killing games. I've seen enough blood in my lifetime. I always liked knights and dragons when I was a kid and the ladies were very fancy with their characters and I had to laugh. Hey, I never played a game with a guy when I got hit with hugs and fairy dust. Caught me off guard and me and my wife had to laugh at that one. Word is bond. Anyway, I think there is a problem though. Some other ladies got all upset about something and I don't know if the game is gonna go on or not. Shame

Maglet,

I too am a newbie and I stumbled upon the game by accident. It looked interesting so I played. Then last week while there was tremendous conflict on this site, I was dealing with some life issues, (you know death, cancer, fibromyalgia, arthritis, sleep agnea, nothing as important as this conflict.

I came back and found the postings regarding where is the queendom. Seemed like a harmless post. Now after 90 odd replies and many darts thrown at me and my theology, I am ready to quit this board. I'm thinking of heading to Chronic Pain, where it seems that laughter and games are well accepted.

I really have never seen adults act so childishly. I am very disappointed in EVERYTHING that has happened over the last two days.

Maybe Havoc and I can start a kingdom on Chronic Pain.

Now watch as a hundred people attack this reply.