My prayers are with you. Fibro and lonelyness go together. My friends quit inviting me places, I always say no. Plus they are all couples. Hang in there.

Holding you close in thought and prayer. I understand totally. I still work part-time and that is my social life....Reach out to a church in your community?

Lord, I pray for antari right now, I ask that you please fill the void he is experiencing and erase the hurt. Please hold him in Your loving arms and surround him with peace and love. Give him the strength, hope and power he needs to go on. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen

MY PRECIOUS ONE, I WILL PUT YOU ON MY LIST SO I WON'T FORGET TO PRAY. PLEASE HOLD IT TOGETHER AND CALL ON US WHEN YOU NEED US AT ANYTIME. I KNOW THAT THERE ARE ALOT OF US THAT SUFFER FROM THAT TOO B/C FAMILY MEMBERS DON'T KNOW HOW TO SUPPORT US OR EVEN HOW TO HELP US IN OUR PAIN , SO YOU HOLD ON FOR US...SOK???....LOVE...HELEN

Oh Darlin', my heart goes out to you! Loneliness is the deepest pain of all. But you are far, far too young to decide the right girl will never come along, she will, in God's own time.I know that doesn't help with today's pain, but know that everyone here is praying for you, supporting you and loving you. You are such a sweetheart, and, judging by your picture, cute as a spotted puppy, too! ( You being from Atlanta, I know you get that, but for northerners who don't, that's a compliment) Hang in there, sweetie

Antari, please see your dr. about this. Explain to him that you meds are no longer doing the job. Then reach out to your church. Do you like animals? Maybe you could get a pet to care for? When you get on the right meds you will feel more ambitious and confident. Please see your dr. Let us know and stay in touch. We care.

I've often tried reaching out to churches. The older people understand, but the youth are full of immaturity and coldness. If only I were twenty years older, I'd certainly find someone.

I know I'm young, but my worry is that I may not make it to an older age. I need love in order to maintain my mind. I do not only lack love, but friends. I've never had a friend in real life. It's quite lonely. I'm not inconfident, I know I'm a good guy and that have no reason to feel I'm not worth anything, I just feel lonely, and that loneliness causes more pain, which makes it harder to go out places, which makes me lonelier. So ironic. =P

Oh Honey, It will get better, it always does. Please keep positive thoughts. My heart goes out to you!!!

Many prayers being sent your way, I hope they help!!!

Hugs,
Laurie

Sorry you are feeling so bad and lonely to boot.Someday a special person WILL come into your life.Keep trying and you will find a good church.OK.You are in my prayers.We are your friends here. marilyn

Please see your doctor. There are so many different meds available.Your doctor needs to find the right one for you. I was very depressed over the loss of my marriage of 30 years and nothing helped more than seeing a therapist. I also took meds but they can releive your symptoms but you need to have a professional person to open your heart to. I too once said I was bleeding and no one could see it. I understand and I care. You are in my thoughts and prayers Antari.

Because you so enjoy reaching out to help others I think you should volunteer somewhere. Maybe a homeless shelter, ANYTHING to put you with people who need a hand up. This will fill your heart in a way few things can. I think volunteering always helps me more than the people I'm there to assist.
Hang in there! Hugs to you!
Staci

I am sorry to hear you are in such pain physically and emotionally. "I know hearing it will get better" sometimes just sounds empty. But it is true. You are valued here at DS and I am sure by others in your life. You will be in my prayers and thoughts. Mssg me anytime...

God will find a way to ease your pain. Just trust him! This is for You:
God grant me the
Serenity
To accept the things I
cannot change.
The Courage to change the things I
can;
And the Wisdom to
know the difference.

Antari201,
Try to be patient, it really is true when you concentrate on living your life that person comes along and likes the same things you like to do. So find where God wants you to be and he will bring her to you. He is faithful. It's hard to think straight on hard drugs is there anything else that is less hard on your head? I am on Lyrica have you tried that or anti depressant like Cymbalta? You don't have to answer I am just trying to help. Also I will definetely be praying for you to have peace with your life because life is short and you really don't want to miss the good stuff.

I don't have much to add as you got some great advice. I'll keep you in my prayers and try and get out and join a church or do volunteer work. Ask God to put the right person in your life. Hugs, Keleee :)