Ever since I got this ugly illness my house cleaning has been put on the back burner. I have had my children and my hubby doing the cleaning for the last couple of years. This last year has been hell for me I have been fighting this fatigue and pain so bad. I stayed either on the couch or in the bed. I started to look around the house today and I wanted to scream. I told my hubby I have never lived in a house this dirty in my life. I have tried to get help around her for cleaning out cabnets and shelves, it dont get done. My family has gotten lazy, I think they think oh well mom lays around so will we and not do anything not unless we want to. I have told my hubby that I was going to hire someone to clean the house and he said no that they would do it. My hubby just got a good lay back job and so he stated he would help get the house in order. Yeah we'll see. I always had a spotless house. I have learned to leave it to the family, I had to. I just need to vent. thank you all for listening. Hugs
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