So I've been with my b/f Jason for 3yrs as of Feb 28th & it has been an amazing experience. At the same time, I've gone through more bull crap than I should have. We moved to Vegas so that he could be closer to his mom & twin bro. Before we moved, we hardly fought. As soon as a week in Vegas went by, his mom started finding things to complain about me. She would tell him to tell me to do or not do certain things. This went on for 4 months til we moved into our own place. Then, she started saying I was manipulative, controlling, ruining his life, & taking advantage of him. Not to mention she always told me & others that I fake my illnesses. To keep from making more probs, Jason never said anything to her about what she had been doing. She finally told us that our relationship is unhealthy because we are together so often. We've always been this way & love spending as much time as we can with eachother. But still, this wasn't enough for her. Anyways, we all went out for the twins' 23rd bday & were having a great time. Jason drank too much & starting feeling sick so he had me wait for him by the bathroom so I can drive him home after. All the sudden his mom comes up to- right after I had talked to Jason- and she tells me he isn't in the bathroom & he doesn't want to see me & to leave with her. I said well thank you for lying to me but I'll stay right here. So, he came out & we were walkin out of the club when he family started following us & saying I couldn't go with him. He told them to leave us alone & let us go home. We all ended up in the parking garage & his family couldn't believe that his mom would lie to me-but I kept my word & wouldn't back down. Eventually, they started scaring me & were in a circle surrounding me while yelling & calling me very horrible things. Now, I go to Church, never talk bad about people-even if they hurt me, and would never try to hurt anyone. To be told all the horrible things they'd said breaks me down. I still wouldn't back down & his twin was threatening me. He then pushed me on my chest & knocked me down on the concrete in the parking garage. I hit my head & couldn't get up- Jason tried helping but he was still drunk & his family held him back. They then took my phone because I tried calling 911 for help. Then my purse was thrown away from me. When I said I was calling 911, his mom told me nobody would believe me & I had tripped on my heels-not shoved. I've never imagined I would go through this. It was so scary. Jason told me to just calm down & he was trying to help me but his bro's b/f picked me up & shoved me in the car against my will & locked me in. They took us back to the house & told me to get the f out of their life. The worst part is Jason didn't feel the same as his family. We are still together & working through it but I flew out the next day to be with my family where I'm safe. Now we are trying to see how to get our own place so we don't have to be by his family. It's hard for both of us since I don't want to take him from his family, but I don't think we should stop our relationship just because his family disagrees with us. If I were to go back to Vegas to be with him, his family would still be there & none of my own. My heart tells me to do what it takes to be with him, but I'm scared to go through this again. I'm feeling so lost. This stress is making me feel like I'm @ my worst w/ FMS and I just wanna be with him again. I'm asking for prayers from anyone who can. I know I can be strong & need God's help. Just need to get through all of this...
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