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My work is pushing and pushing the disability issue. I get my work done, but usually while sitting in my cubicle and crying because the pain is so bad. I don't think I could make it on what they pay. Paul is completely against it, so I'm not sure I could count on him for financial help, and if that's the case, he'd have to go. I just don't know what to do. I don't need all this stress on top of the pain. It just makes it worse. I need to go see my diabetes doctor, but I'm afraid to take any time off right now. That's kinda dangerous, since I'm a diabetic on an insulin pump. I can't do this. I can't have these crazy thoughts that I'm having. I really need help. I don't know what to do.
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Regarding the job, if you are in tears all day long it is time to consider disability. I would call a meeting with your supervisor and HR. Find out exactly why they want you to go on disability. If you are performing your job and the crying doesn't affect anyone they can't force you.
You may also want to contact an employment lawyer.
I know that's a lot. Remember to breathe. Do one thing at a time and remember there are people who care about you.
Try to relax and tend to your immediate health needs first. Let work take care of itself. You give them a lot and you're a hard worker.
I agree with the others about maybe trying the "work from home" route, too.
It could also be that things are happening for a reason and a better job situation may be just around the corner. Are there any other companies within your field that are hiring?
Maybe some time off from this place could allow you to clear your mind and start looking for something else that would be more hospitable and appreciative of you.
Your DS family is here for you with lots of support and gentle hugs.
I'm with the others. I'd file for SSID now and go out on LTD. Yes, it is hard living on less but what if you lose the job or find you are in too much pain to stay on? I'd rather be safe then sorry. You can still work on SSID and see if it is an option down the road. I am so glad I applied early and it came just as my LTD was ending. Good Luck and I hope things get better at work, hugs, Keleee :)
Maybe you just need something pretty strong?
Oh, LTD=Long Term Disability. If you pay for it through your work, then you get about 60% of your paycheck for a certain amount of time if you have to leave for health issues.