I got a PM earlier....after the post....and things are ok. Its not my business so I don't want to say much more. Just letting you know that she is ok.

Something is just not right here. Please go back a couple weeks, and read all of her posts. Something is GOING ON, that I think was not posted. Which is really none of our business. But I do however think its HORRIBLE if shes OK that she hasnt let us know. I do not understand this. I thought she was a very compationate person. Ive been thinking WHY, would she not let us KNOW, shes alright. My answers to myself, are NOT GOOD! I HOPE and PRAY Im wrong. My only other answer to myself, is she cant get to a PC. I am sick with worry for her.

Beck....please forgive me. I usually don't talk about other peoples business.

She is under a lot stress and has a jackass hubby who in under a lot of stress as well and needs to be on Effexor and has agreed to it....apparently has been on it in the past.

Anyway....when she wrote a while ago she was doing ok and he was "behaving" himself.

She stlll is in need of a lot of support. This really isn't over yet.

Thank you Basket. I messaged her and begged her to let SOMEONE KNOW!

thanks for letting us know basket
I am bumping this up since Please Read it still at the top.

again, thanks for telling us Basket and will continue to keep her in my prayers

Im worried too about her.

I do know what it is like to be in a crisis situation and to not be able to get back online. If she told someone she is ok, it sounds like she is doing all she can to focus on herself right now,and that is what she needs to do.

ffwife, we love and care about you...

my prayers and thoughts are on you. Please keep your safety a priority....your life is precious and so are you. A lot of us out here care so much about you.

Thank you Basket for letting us know. I am only sorry that she would post such a post and leave the rest of us wondering what is going on. It is good that she let you know but it would have been a much kinder and considerate thing to let us all know considering how desperate her post sounded. This reply in no way reflects on you Basket, you were kind enough to not leave the rest of us hanging.

imstillme is correct. I agree totally.

I tend to agree with you, ims. But she is trying to kind doing special things for hubby today so probably hasn't been online since earlier. Plus I think he isn't real crazy about her being online.

So before we judge the behavior, we should wait to hear her reason.

Gentle hugs...

Basket it is just like you to be so kind. Once again I will say she had the time to let you know she was ok and I feel the time could have been used to post to the whole board. After all the PLEASE READ was to the group. As far as I am concerned the matter is over, she is alive and her husband is as well and once again thank you for caring enough to inform us.

maybe we should mail her some support or prayer cards, or just thinkin of you cards. she needs to know that we care.

That's a great idea bluesun!!

I just addressed one for her a few minutes ago. If anyone wants her address, feel free to message me and I will give it to you. We should flood her mailbox with Thinking of You cards since she is the one that thought of the Christmas card exchange.

I think that's a great idea - I have her address from the card exchange.

I want to add my thoughts here - I think it's unfair to expect much of her right now - she needed help, asked for it, and we gave it. I didn't give her my advice with the thought of being thanked, or updated, or anything other than getting her through the moment.

Right now she has all she can do to live her life. She and he both have things to work out and this is not a time to judge her or put pressure on her to live up to someone else's expectations.